I'm looking for my place in this community. I've relatively new, discovering this side of myself just a couple years ago. I am very interested in finding someone to connect with. It's challenging to find what I want and need - a firm dom in the bedroom but a kind, easy going, intelligent, introspective man outside. I'm not remotely submissive day to day. :)
I want much more than a play mate and honestly am struggling to get comfortable with how sexual conversations are here. I want to get to know you, and I need someone who wants to know all about me. I realize everyone is looking for a sexual match so I've put some of my interests below. But really I want a person with depth, compassion, a gentle (and strong) soul.
After a few disappointing encounters I have to say honesty and self-honesty are probably the most important things to me.
I need and enjoy a lot of communication. Want someone open, respectful, kind and self aware. I love talking about thoughts and feelings. Knowing what you feel turns me on.
I'm not into humiliation or degradation. I don't think I like being told what to do, but within being shown or made to do what you want I like it a lot.
I want to be restrained and touched and teased. Caressed and appreciated. I love talking and listening.
I love affection and attention and variety.
I need meet at least a couple times before we get physical.
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My Ideal Person:
Kind, confident, respectful and communicative. Confident, introspective, intelligent. Someone who knows what he wants and will make it happen. Is curious about me. Wants to know who I am in and out of the bedroom. Adoring, caring, loving.
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