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What is this world called BDSM?
What treasures does it bestow?
What delights does one receive?
Is it filled with mysteries?
Will it open Pandora's box?
How does one enter?
How does one find the light?
How does one open that door called BDSM?
Does one come as they are?
Do you need Visa or Master Card?
So many questions.
So much to gain.
To share deepest desires and secrets.
Yes, he aches to find the answers.
I am hear to teach and learn, explore and discover, share and give, laugh and have fun, experience the treasures of BDSM. To discover a world of sexual freedoms. At the very least we should establish a friendship. At the best we will explore the body, mind, and soul. This journey is not a whim, thing, fling, fad, or such. My passions are true. My desires are real. I look not to establish a harem or have a one night thing. It is not sex I am after. It is a mutual trust and understanding. It is sharing ones deepest, most intense and secret desires. This does just fall out of the sky. It takes work. It takes communicating. It takes honesty, trust, similarities, and openness. Yes a physical attraction is required. So to is a connection of body, spirit, and mine. To experience can not be a one thing. I have read, shared thoughts, and studied. I have look inside myself and that of others. I do not take this lightly. I am not here for games, lies, phonies, and such. What I bring is 50 years of life's experiences. I am intelligent, mature, honest, easy going, witty, respectful, caring, confident, and secure in my current situation. I am nearing 50 but going on 30. My spirit and love for life is youthful. I love to write and correspond. I see every reply or meeting as an opportunity to exchange and share gifts we possess. I have many passion. My love for my family and friends. My love of the outdoors is another. Yes, sexuality also. I feel 2-3 chats are important prior to meeting in order to set the mood, create excitement and anticipation, and assure the chemistry is there. If we meet I do not think this means that we automatically start tying, spanking, pulling, pinching. I may have these thoughts but I have enough respect for the other person/persons to keep them at bay.
I am a gentleman. I would hope we are all civilized adults on this site. I am not in any mid life crisis or some old fat, balding, pervert just looking to get laid. Eventually, I would hope it will lead to a mutual connection and trust needed to discover the treasures of this world called BDSM. If you see similarities or just want to explore further please contact me. To help answer who I am I will share my views on dominant and submissive. I feel I can be either depending on the situation, desires, and needs of the other.
I believe my personality and characteristics hint that I am better suited to be the dominant one.
I strongly believe it requires more than just saying you are a dom or a sub. A master/dom is one that is able to control and take charge of the situation. His/her will is strong. They are aware of the needs of the other and gifted in bringing them out. They demand and order not for personal gratification but because it is what is best for both. They are understanding and sensitive when it is called for and also strict and demanding if it is needed. They demand not because of some Neanderthal purpose but because it is what is needed. They use their wisdom, the ability to understand the moment, confidence, and self assurance as tools.
A submissive does not submit because they are this weak, unknowing, frail individual that doesn't know otherwise. They submit knowing to do so is their reward. Sometimes it's because of inexperience. Other times it may be do to a need to be controlled in order to find knowledge. It may be do to insecurities or just a desire to have it happen. It is not a male/female thing. Roles are understood and accepted through strengths and the gifts each has. One is not weaker or stronger then the other. It is just part of this world called BDSM.
I know this is just a shallow over view. I share
because it may help to understand who I am and what
I search and ache for. I am always open to anyone's thoughts. I learn and understand through them. If I am out in left field or missing something please correct me.
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My Ideal Person:
Is their anyone out there that dreams of having romantic and passionate encounters that will share one's deepest, secret, desires. I am looking for friends who wants to share and explore each others fetishes and fantasies. You may be in between relationships, secure in one and wanting to add a little excitement, or just love to have sex. To fulfill what I want you have to be honest with what you need, enjoy the moment, and be willing to share and converse. We may have a chat, a one time meeting, monthly get together, or it may lead to other things. I have no idea. I look for people that are intellegent, able to express, open, honest, and sincere. You should enjoy outdoor activities. The chemistry has to be there; be it physical, mental, lust, or whatever. I am willing to put forth the energy to assure it is. I will treat you like a friend. So lets chat.
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