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[SIZE 3][COLOR red]"The man who is proudly certain of his own value, will want the highest type of woman he can find, the woman he admires, the strongest, the hardest to conquer - because only the possession of a heroine will give him the sense of an achievement, not the possession of a brainless slut". [I]~Ayn Rand[/I][/COLOR][/SIZE] ... ... ... (as you read, you will also note that I want nothing less)
I'm not hard to conquer but I don't submit to anyone.
When I can get online, you'll find me in the Lobby. Chatting (even online) can tell you a lot about a person.
[bling 9588][SIZE 3] BDSM.
I give respect to everyone no matter their role. I'll have an intelligent conversation with you without ever behaving submissive because I am not your submissive.
I'm married. My husband is a dominant, just not my dominant so, with full disclosure and unconditional love, we allow each other to seek what we cannot give. This mentality cannot be understood if you cant think outside the box.
I've been owned. I've given of myself in ways that are indescribable and have experienced the pain that goes with those emotions when it comes to an end but I have learned that there is no doubt in my abilities to fulfill my role in a BDSM relationship.
My husband isn't involved with my BDSM lifestyle. He meets those whom I might begin a relationship with but that's as far as it goes and thats usually after we've met and established there *is* chemistry. After that, the time I spend will be one-on-one.
As an example: In my last relationship, we spent a weekend every month and went away for a 4-day weekend to go to a BDSM event.
A relationship with me is only limited to our imagination.
And I understand if your imagination doesnt involve a married woman - I get that but I dont need messages berating me for something you cant understand - especially as you add to your stable.
I don't do sex. At least not in the beginning - if you cant get into my head, you wont get into my pants.
I've been owned 3 times and only had intercourse with one. He was the one that got into my head; that didn't have to use sex in order to own me. If you don't get that then we won't do well together.
That doesnt remove other forms of sexual enjoyments.
~ I tend to hope when there might not be hope.
~ I'm allergic to pain - yours and mine - mostly yours.
~ I only understand myself when things are going well, otherwise chaos reins.
~ I fight when I hurt because I don't like to cry - or I shut down.
~ I believe there is no right or wrong as long as another doesn't become damaged.
~ I have sailed under a rainbow and over an ocean as smooth as glass.
~ I play devil's advocate but enjoy a win/win conversation.
~ I have an "all about me" complex that those who live comfortably in their box can never appreciate.
~ I wear rose-colored glasses and am grateful for those who keep them there.
~ I have a shoe fetish I work hard to keep under control ... I hate control.
~ I don't have to understand or agree with someone to love them.
~ I love to sing ... as long as the music is loud enough that I cant hear myself.
~ There's a lot of cookies out there ... I'm not the smartest.[/SIZE]
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My Ideal Person:
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Integrity: Truth is what creates a solid foundation in any relationship - not love. Without truth, there is only the fallacy of love. I prefer the reality.
I'm honest ~ you be too. I'd rather be hurt with the truth than devastated by a lie. I dont wish to ever experience that again.
I dont want you to cater to me ... I just want to be appreciated - we all do.
I believe myself to enjoy old school BDSM. No BS, no equality, and TPE are a few of the things I desire to embrace.
Comfortable in the boardroom?
How about at a bar?
Most wouldn't suspect you being a deviant?
Articulate?
Don't feel the need to piss on a tree to prove yourself?
Enjoy the journey more than the destination?
Experienced with a flogger?
How about things that scare me?
Believe BDSM isn't all about sex?
Believes a woman shouldn't leave her intelligence at the door?
Have a lack of drama in your life and like to keep it that way?
Enjoy complete control - the kind that shows patience but doesnt back down?
Don't make up reasons to punish when you know all you need is to voice your desires instead of making her feel like she failed?
I seek someone stronger than me - mentally, physically, and emotionally - for only the strong shall serve the strong.
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