Hi there, thanks for reading :)
I've had a couple of years of this now and starting to get a feel for what I want. The rest of this is mostly about me, but then it is my profile, so I'm sure you'll forgive me :)
It's almost like I've lived two lives and gradually the feminine one has become stronger and stronger and harder to dismiss for whatever reason. Something I would stress is that I do enjoy my 'normal' life and it's not something I'm trying to escape or find a substitute for. This 'other' me isn't some kind of panacea, just another dimension. I've had a couple of hairy moments here online so I'm cautious to begin with but once I'm intoxicated then there's no stopping me :)
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My Ideal Person:
First thing's first: NO PROFESSIONALS. I won't entertain it for even a minute so don't waste our time.
I'm not sure if this is some sort of 'straight-man-hangover' but I've always imagined myself for the rest of my life with a woman. I guess that qualifies me as straight, right? We'll see, I'm still in the middle of experimenting... The occasional cock does sound rather tempting... But I'm after a girlfriend - someone who is up for normal stuff as well as the kinky side in the bedroom.
I've always imagined her to be super fucking cool. Just laid back and relaxed. Great with people. A subtle form of dominance: people just want her to tell them what to do - she barely has to try. People want her opinion because it's just always well considered and valuable. That's not to say she knows the answer all the time (let's be realistic), just that she knows people and can ask the right question at the right time and brings out the best in them, something they appreciate. Oh: and I very much appreciate the value of a well-timed silence too.
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Sexually she's got to be pretty fucking perverted. And imaginative. And active. I'm up for the occasional trashy TV and weed night but it needs to be occasional! I'm active and ambitious and also kinda hope that this mistress thing could yield positive personal improvements in my 'normal' life (better nutrition, more exercise, more productivity etc). Sensible yet exhaustive (only limits = unsafe / unhealthy). Sensitive and firm (Cuddles after something HARD). Just knowing the right things to do and when.
I sound a bit greedy don't I? Well trust me, if you're actually the woman of my dreams then you won't regret it - my heart my soul my mind my life will be yours
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