I have been in the lifestyle for quite a few years I was an edgeplayer masochist for a lot of those years.. Now Im more into domination. Im experienced in delivering impact, needles, and enjoy receiving service from submissive men.
For me, its all about the connection and trust and mutual respect. On a mental level, humour level, and Sex Drive level. You will be interested in exploring your kink/BDSM fantasies/ideas with me and I with you.
I wont be someone's dirty little secret so you will be unattached and not in an open relationship or poly.
I ideally I want our kink to spill over to vanilla activities. I am interested in exploring a FLR relationship with a submissive male.
I am a giver. I am fun and have many friends within this lifestyle. I am intelligent, funny well groomed and a little wicked. .
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My Ideal Person:
Over 40 under 58 years of age.
Looking for a CONNECTION rather than a person's label. A connection that contains respect, honesty and trust can conquor labels, and allow two people to grow in the their kink and see where it goes, what boundaries are pushed and expanded.
I am evidence of this, having had it in the past. Sorry if you identify as a slave, youre not for me. I like a man who has ideas, opinions.
A submissive male who has experienced, or curious about, wax play, CBT, chastity and service, impact play.
BONUS if you are keen to expand your boundaries
BONUS if you are tall, because a tall intelligent man is a natural lubricant for me.
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