My Ideal Person:
Lately I have been asked the same questions or close to the same questions so I will answer them now and leave it at that. And if I get asked with the same questions I will know you haven’t read my journal or my profile.

How much do I want D/s to come into my relationship? To start I don’t want to have many expectations I feel like I want to grow into something and starting off as play partners or few dates and build up to something is were I want to start . If the possibly of being more yes I will let you know and I will make the next step . Once that start to form into something that could be long term I will want a D/s relationship it would start as a 50/50 and if the connection is right and WE/we both feel like its getting serious . Then I want a 24/7 TPE relationship . Even when in vanilla I would still make the plans and such . I have been wanting more and more control. When out if you slave does something out of your place I will make it known even if its “ the LOOK, your getting it when HOME” that will happen .

I am very much into control, strap ones , humiliation, teasing and denial as well as chastity, spanking , cuckolding and emotional pain and even more .

I know anyone can put a cock cage on a man and make them be a sub to them but once cock cage it off that will change. That doesn’t make the male or female wanting to be owned by you just means you know how to get a cock or pussy locked up .
What I need is to get inside your head and start My webs of dominance getting deep into your mind and that to Me is having a mental cage that will earn My slaves trust and willingness to tall me his owner .

My personal limits are : with My body I don’t have My spanked , touched without permission , anal that is not My place, I don’t do blood on My body or My slaves ( note things happen but I don’t do it with intent) .
I am getting better at rope tying but I still need practice .

If you plan on messaging me put an effort into your profile and your message . I want someone who is willing to put in the work and dedication to create the beautiful D/s relationship are. So if I see no effort I will not be interested.

I know everyone won't like me or love me but deal with it I don't give a crap what you think.I am Who I am and that's all that matters. if you don't like me just means I will not be talking to you. And if I have no interest in having anything with you I will be honest and tell you. I just hope you the sub or slave has the same respect and honesty to be upfront if you're not interested

a few things I NEED
1. daily contact with My slave . I Love and Need control and the more communication the better for me . Communication is key to me if there isn’t any then there is no relationship in my eyes
2. I need my slave to want to love me for my vanilla side too not just my controlling kinky self I am both . So if you don’t want to learn about my vanilla interest and share those interest don’t bother . If you only want just want once a month thing that’s what will happen if you don’t want to see My other side . Both sides of Me are very important to me
3. I need someone real wanting to be with me for me not because of a dare or whatnot. I want someone truthful someone I can trust . Someone who will be honest and tell me when things feel uncomfortable but know I have your back to support you even if I will use it later to hurt you . I want to know you inside in out the same way I except my slave to be doing too
4. I need someone to be my other half someone who will be on my side in kink and vanilla doesn't mean they will have any control because they won't but I want to have my sub or slave to be mine and feel complete .

More to come later