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sjbinder  
Looking for that woman yearning to yield
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Member Since: October 4, 2013

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   January 1, 1959
(65 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Santa Clara, California, United States
Relocate?:   No
Height:   5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   Master's degree
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Salt and Pepper
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Blue
Glasses or Contacts :   None


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   Prefer not to say
Role:   Dominant
Level of Experience:   More than five years
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Conservative
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Prefer not to say

Personal
Facial Hair: None
Body Hair: Prefer not to say
Body Decorations : None
Male Endowment: Prefer not to say/
Prefer not to say
Circumcised: Yes
Marital Status: Single
Occupation: s
Religion: Prefer not to say

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65 year old Man in Santa Clara, California, United States Looking For: Women

Profile for sjbinder
I am looking for that woman yearning to yield. And she is looking for more than just anyone to open to. There is the natural flow of conversation and exploration. She must be willing to consider that as we get to know one another, our relationship may grow beyond the temporary. Let me be clear… she is definitely a she…. not someone surgically altered or pretending to be a she. She can not be married. I will not be a party to home-wrecking. I will not be part of any interaction that will disrupt a home and this especially so if she has . She should understand that her attractiveness comes from within …that it is more than just the physical. It is the way she carries herself. She may be tired of being the one in control and is seeking the freedom and release that comes with being in the hands of another. She may be someone who has long suppressed her need to be submissive to another. She must be a seeker . Most of all she needs to have the character to be honest about her interest in yielding. Any woman reading this must ask herself if this is indeed what she seeks. Yielding means more than just giving in. It is broader and deeper. It is embracing the leadership of another. Yielding in things as simple as taking my hand when I beckon her. Yielding as we speak to each other. Finding herself compelled to tell me answers to questions both innocent and more deep. Yielding when I note the clothes that become her or the way she should wear her hair. Yielding when I we plan our day's activities. And finding both arousal and excitement as she yields to those little innuendos I whisper in her ear. And then there is the yielding that occurs in our private times. Yielding in how she carries herself. Yielding in how she attires herself to please me. Yielding in how she presents herself to me. Yielding in how she reveals the little things that make her who she is. In terms of intimacy , it is the yielding as I have her reveal to me the pleasures and fantasies she has suppressed… things she may never have told anyone before. Yielding in how she finds herself responding to my desires. Yielding as I caress her. Yielding as I slowly undo her clothes or direct her to undress before me. Yielding as I explore her to find all those things that give her goosebumps. Yielding as she reveals those things that will fulfill her. And then there is the erotic yielding. Yielding as I bind her. Yielding as I make her helpless … her every sensation left in my hands. Yielding as I bring her close to her orgasm….. and yielding as I stop just short of letting her have it. Both frustrated in being brought so close and intensely aroused in knowing that I will bring her to it eventually. Then there is the yielding that comes from the knowledge that I might use a vibrator to force her into having one orgasm after another, pleasing her until she aches and she screams for relief. And then there is the yielding when she has disobeyed. Yielding as she takes her position of submission. Yielding to the punishments. Suffering through the sting of a leather belt striking her ass. Suffering through the feeling an electrical shock to her nipples or pussy lips. Suffering through the excruciating chill of ice pressed against her most sensitive places. Suffering through the ache in her shoulders because I have tied her hands behind her back and pulled them up high behind her. Suffering through abandonment. Denied my touch because I have left her bound, gagged and alone. Suffering as I force her to either beg for forgiveness or do those things she says she will never do. Yielding until she repents of her actions and is willing to atone. And after the atonement, the pleasure of my forgiveness. In yielding, she will find fulfillment. Is this you? [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
My ideal woman has less to do with the physical… and more with the internal. Yes, I expect her to be healthy. I expect her to take care of herself physically. And I expect her to be of a reasonable height-weight ratio. But it's the other things that have more power .

She must understand the power of being discreet. She must appreciate that maintaining a vanilla appearance in public makes the things we do in private that much more enjoyable.

She must understand and appreciate the idea of innuendo. Of how little shared secrets can be very enjoyable. Those little things done and said in public that have a meaning to us that no one else knows about.

She should be aroused by the idea of being my love slave…. and she should be aroused by the idea that she may often find herself bound, gagged and helpless. Totally in the hands of another.

She should expect that I will bring her to reveal her secrets to me. Things she may have been thinking about or fantasizing about but never dared tell anyone before.

She should also expect that there will be times that I stretch her boundaries. Stretch them in ways that will heighten her experiences and bring her excitement.


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