My biggest kinks are being spanked (as erotic foreplay and "OMG I'll never do that again" discipline) and bondage (preferably forcefully restrained just because being physically overpowered really turns me on), having my control completely taken away from me (probably because I'm such a control freak in the rest of my life). I prefer to be sub to my man (though have had fun with switching), but am not interested in being a doormat used for some sadistic amusement (used as your favorite sex toy in the bedroom would be my pleasure). I am NOT looking for some guy who wants to call me his piggy, make me lick his dirty shoes, pee on me, or beat the shit out of me!
As for the Switchy side of me, I'm not an abusive Top (would never call myself a Domme). I will have fun cuffing you in place & toying with you. I enjoy mild impact play, sensation play, anal play (yes I have a bit of experience with pegging), electro, even a bit of fire. Basically I like to give things I enjoy receiving. As far as service slave play goes, I love getting a massage, a nice lick, maybe even a pedicure if feet are your thing, but I'm not going to be asking you to clean or run errands for me.
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My Ideal Person:
A man who loves sex - not just fucking (although that is good too), but the teasing & playing as well. Someone who is a strong, dominant, force (or a playful switch) who knows what he wants, but also cares about whether my needs are being met as well as his. Someone who is intelligent, playful, and understands that the most erogenous zone a woman has is her mind. Someone who likes to touch - soft, teasing caresses as well as a firm, demanding grip. An interest in Sci-fi & board games would be a bonus, but not required lol.
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