Sincere submissive with 20 years experience seeking the ever-elusive gentleman (age 44-58) who wants to be a Dominant in a committed long term relationship in and out of the bedroom. About me in general-I’m a smart, talented and successful individual. I value patience, intelligence, manners, mutual earned respect, honesty, and a sense of humor. I appreciate someone who is handy and can teach me new things. I’m a pretty independent woman. This doesn’t mean I don’t know how to submit or that I don’t need you in my life. It just means I don’t need you to save me, rescue me or pay my bills. I need you in different, more nuanced ways, to be my partner in enjoying life to the fullest. I value my family and friends and being involved in the community. I love to cook but find the greatest pleasure in doing it for someone who appreciates it more than doing it on my own.
From a D/s perspective, it isn't just "play" or "kink" to me. Being submissive/slave is inherent to who I am and it is where I find my happiness. I'm seeking a true long term partner in life that believes one can exist in a committed relationship both as "vanilla" partners to the world but paired with the benefits, pleasures and satisfaction of a D/s relationship. I'm not interested in being someone's sub on the side, let's be each other's priority.
Strengths, as told to me by former Doms, compassionate, thoughtful, eager to please and open to trying new things, focused, obedient, will put you first, passionate, fun, and yes, sassy, kind-hearted, giving, finds happiness in your satisfaction, can be playful and naughty at times (in a good way). I agree with all of this and would also add, loyal, smart, optimistic, kind find joy in the little things like a beautiful moon or sunset.
Opportunities, can be hesitant with certain things if it is a push of limits (planting the seed over time helps).
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