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i am a big girl, 300lbs to be exact. i am into the BDSM lifestyle.
i need to mention i am rather new at this.. i have watched from the sidelines for sometime but now i want to step into the lifestyle. (i have a lot of learning to do)
For a long term relationship, with the right person, i am not against being collared and owned as property; however, this Master would have be loving and caring even though He enjoys pain, humiliation, degrading, dehumanizing, objectifying etc.
Number one turn off as far as getting to know you: messaging me and right off the bat telling me or even just asking me to be your sex slave.. please don't do that.
For me.. collaring is like marriage, it is special and important. If W/we can't hold a conversation that is not sexual, i am not interested. It is my life and even though i can be property, i am not worthless or something to be walked all over, thank You.
I am not currently able to relocate.
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My Ideal Person:
Since learning is an ongoing process i am always up for new friends and chat buddies that are in the lifestyle. For a partner i would love to find a male Dom who wants a longterm relationship, not just cam use or casual sex use. Preferably around my age and also moderately experienced in the BDSM lifestyle. (creativity doesn't hurt) One thing i am finding out is with pain play in a relationship.. i get nothing out of it if the Dom is not a sadist. i get the pleasure out of pain knowing the person is enjoying it and wants it. i am not into extreme pain.. only light to moderate, however at the same time i feel i need that to be apart of the relationship.. basically what im saying is You need to be a sadist, lol.
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