My Ideal Person:
Honesty, at all times.
Willing to learn to serve me as I desire to be served. Realize that no matter how many others you have served, they are not me. You will need to learn what I like. To look beyond the first glance at someone, get to know the inner, most important part of a person. Their mind, heart and soul. Beauty fades with time, inner qualities are there forever.
Experience is not necessary. Desire to please is.
Want a long term relationship. I am disease free and have proof...you must be also.
Must relocate to me.

NOW READ THIS AND DECIDE JUST HOW SERIOUS I AM…..

I am a 49 year old, white fem Domme in search of a FT/LT slave.
I expect honesty from you, as I will strive to use it in our relationship. I feel that folks should attempt to use honesty in all things, I do ---or at least I try to, and I shall expect the same from you. To me it goes with out saying that children, animals, illegal activities, knives or any permanent marking shouldn't be done to another. I know many owners mark, or brand their property, well if that is something mutually agreed upon then go for it.

I will be the first to admit, that I am not a person who you would normally find gracing fashion magazines, but I am not looking for someone who looks like they stepped off GQ either, if you can understand the point I am trying to make. I am considered a BBW by most and even though I have lost much weight in the last year and still am losing, I want to be up front about it...however, I am not losing it for you or any others, just myself. I am much more interested in what is inside your mind, heart, and what makes you unique. Beauty fades, with time and then lines starts to developed, body parts sag, but a sense of humor, the ability to entertain another with your personality is and will be a priceless facet of a person. Therefore, if you are searching for a 10, in appearance, I must inform you that I am not, so if that were a requirement of yours, you would end up feeling that you are wasting your time with me. However I feel that my traits and qualities are deeper, therefore much more lasting and if you are truly wanting this lifestyle, then perhaps, you should give yourself time to know me. Most individuals, who have, find I am worth it.

I freely admit that I enjoy the attentions a man can give a woman, whether it’s a massage, his kisses and touch to arouse her body, or even his actions to bring her to climax. This is what I look for in my companion/ mate/ sub/slave; even dare I say I would also expect you to be a friend.

I am disease free, having a recent test to prove this fact, (not that I am free with my attentions in using my body. However, since I would expect the same type of questions from you, as well as the fact that I realize that you may have request, especially since you are not collared and are in the position to make requests and comments, without fear. I do think that it may be a good idea for peace of mind and expect to know the true status of your health. I have enough sense to realize that people do have health problems, and I can accept that. Just be upfront and honest.

I am not an individual who hops from bed to bed…so it has been awhile since I enjoyed the attentions of a man. I am looking for someone who in interested in a one on one relationship. With a woman who can be you’re Mistress/Domme/Owner, as well as a companion. I realize that the vanilla world often comes into play…however, there are times, and I would want to go out in public with you by my side as a companion. But there are always ways that control can be used on another, and most would never suspect the true relationship that exists between us.

As for what I am looking for in a slave…well I enjoy many different aspects of this lifestyle. Most who know me, know that I love dominating a man. Know that I have had slaves and subs previously. I had a long term situation with a slave, he was married, and we often met for play…no sex, but most all else, then had a full time live in slave…however he wanted to modify his body to a more female appearance, that wasn’t what I wanted…so I released him from my service. I have met with a few but none held enough interest for me to pursue an actual relationship.

I want someone who isn’t trying to look like a female. I enjoyed having a macho/male looking male…at my side. Servicing me…as only a man can serve a woman. To command him to drop to his knees, start at my feet, and kiss his way upwards…until he reaches the V….to lick, kiss, stroke me…bringing me to climax and if I desire, to slide his hard cock, inside matching the pace I command. Until I again climax. Then it is my decision whether you reach climax yourself.

I make no secret of this. Actually my close friends know this about me. However that doesn’t mean I have to advertise the fact to all…such as a mother or such. (Even though I believe she has her suspicions.) I have always enjoyed having a man wait on me, doing chores around the house, as I sit and watch him….or to enjoy a bit of body worship from my property or a long body massage or you painting my toes as we sit and chat. Or maybe tie you up and tease you for a long afternoon. I can be extremely controlling at times, while at others, you would be allowed almost unlimited freedom.

I have used a strap-on before, making him (you) feel it slide inside you filling you and know that as a straight man, this is something that isn’t considered the norm, however, you are willing to accept this…use of your body by me. To sit on your face while you use your mouth, tongue or even your fingers to excite and satisfy me, bring me to climax….and I have your balls and cock in my hand to assure the very best attentions from you. To punish you for your “crimes or poor service” or to punish you because I sometimes enjoy spanking a man, watching his ass turn red, as he begs for a bit of mercy, maybe even making him cry….there is something about a man crying is so empowering. There are so many things to do….it would be impossible for me to list all. I may even outline afternoon of play, but I rarely plan it to the finest detail.

What I am in search of a real slave, not someone who wants to play around and have dozens of safe words, who wants to have someone on line, to talk to get off and then go on. I want a live in slave, that I can use in many ways, many situations. I don’t mind spending time to know someone, but at some point, so if you need time to chat on line or the phone, I can accept that….however, you have to get off of the fence at some point and either commit yourself to the lifestyle or stand on the side lines and watch. I don’t want to feel that I am talking to you describing things just so you can get your jollies. Again let me state, I can be extremely controlling at times, while at others, you would be allowed almost unlimited freedom. That can be especially nice if you have a favorite sports team you enjoy watching with limited interruptions.

I would need you to relocate to my location, because I have a 3 bedroom, with garage (which is almost paid for) it’s in west Texas, it’s a small town, however I am close to many larger, more diverse locations. I feel that regardless where one is located, happiness and contentment can be found, if the right person is also involved. I look for someone who is willing to submit to the lifestyle, knowing that most individuals can not live it 24/7/365; however, I also feel that it is easy to go back and forth between the vanilla world, and the alt. lifestyle.

To me, a slave is a possession to enjoy and an owner should regard their best interest. If neglected, abused beyond their limits, or similar activities, the slave would not be in a position to give their very best service to their owner. Then of course we defend the true reason for owning a slave…to serve us. To me, a slave is a possession to enjoy and regard their best interest. If neglected, or abused beyond their limits, or similar activities, the slave would not be in a position to give their very best service to me or their owner.

Just as one would service a vehicle that takes them from place to place, so should a slave be treated with such care, even more so, since a slave is so very able to provide so very much pleasure in so many different ways. Even after a punishment, a slave should be comforted, lotion could be applied to the injured body part and a discussion and explain the reason for punishment given to and received by the slave/sub. I realize that the slave is property, but still, attention to details will provide you with many years of happy service.

I feel that if a Mistress knows her property, then she already know just about how far she can push him. I do enjoy giving a red ass; I hope that you are man enough to take it and its ok if you cry a bit and pled for a bit of mercy. (Smiles) I want someone, who can carry on conversation and is vanilla in public, a companion, but in private will know their place. Someone who can be multi-talented, such as someone who can cook, clean, be a lady's maid, who will pamper me, and make my life a pleasure. Who will accept pain from me, when I want to give it and accept punishments for wrong or shoddy done work. I enjoy foot rubs and massages, also full body massages...

There will be times you may be required to have a chastity device used upon you, so your pleasure will be limited, however at other times, at times you will be a sex toy or sex slave, that will provide pleasure for me...and sex can be denied to you if you do not deserve it. I believe that once a slave is collared, and then they become the owner's property. However, since right now you are on an open market, looking for the right owner, take the time to ask questions, understand what will be expected from you, what you can expect from me, or any other prospective owner you are talking to…now is the time to ask…to understand limits.

I hope that this will help you understand me a bit better. I will give you in great detail, what I like, dislike…on many different topics, and I certainly don’t mind any questions that you ask…as a matter I expect these questions….and feel that you are very much in error for failing to take advantage to know as much as possible about me… Because once you are collared, these are all things you should know. I don’t mind talking on the phone, answering all your questions and addressing all your concerns. I feel that now is the very best time for you to ask any and all questions. So if I didn’t address your topic of concern, then feel free to bring it up.

So if you have gotten this far, either you are still interested or bored and in dire need of reading material… Look forward to hearing from you and find out just which it is…bored or what?????