I became a member of alt.com in 1999, although I let my membership lapse and my old name Ms.Melissa was deleted. I am divorced with no children living in Oklahoma. I just moved to OK in Jan '08 from Mobile, AL. I just left a bad relationship, so I'm not really looking for anything serious at this point. I've made some friends here over the years and I'm hoping to see some of them again. I'll be honest and say that I don't live this lifestyle 24/7 and don't plan to. When I first came to alt, I was mentored by someone and introduced to submission. I think it depends on your mindset and the person you are with and your comfort level in order to be a "good" submissive. I'll be honest and say I wasn't very good!  I prefer the Dominant role, but I really don't want a little sissy boy either. I guess I'm really picky, huh? I think what a couple does and how they live in their own private world is shared by them without constraints or comments from outside the relationship. Honesty is very important to me. I'll be honest again, and say I was very, very hurt by my last relationship. I was lied to and I won't ever put myself in that kind of position again. I think I am a giving person, perhaps I used to be too trusting. I also like to laugh and have fun and I think now that I'm ready for that again after most of the grieving process has passed. I have learned alot about myself over that past 10 years. I know that life is too short, and I want to live it to the fullest. I want to travel and experience other cultures. I love to entertain friends and family in my home and I've become quite the cook. I love to collect first edition books, antiques and go to flea markets. I love most types of music, going for coffee on sunday mornings and reading the paper. I'm a pretty normal lady with a wild streak. I'm fiercely loyal and protective of family and friends. I just want open communication and honesty. I love to meet new people and make new friends and have good conversation.
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I'm looking to make new contacts and contact old friends I've made here over the years. Nothing serious at this point, as I'm newly divorced. I'm not really ready to pursue anyone or anything, but I'm up for surprises.
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