Hey, I just renewed my membership, so once again standard members can contact me...
I'm a light complexioned black guy (i. e. a mutt) who is a very warm, sincere masculine and mellow average guy who just happens to really enjoy the company of another guy in EVERY way... However, I don't like to label myself gay because I much better identify with and/or appreciate the character, interests and mannerisms of a straight dude. However, I do appreciate the finer things in life like gourmet food and wine, 4 or 5 star hotels, etc., but can also be content with a beer, burger & fries, tent & sleeping bag (preferably for 2...). Love alternative music, bands like Tool, NIN, Linkin Park, etc. as well as jazz, reggae and more contemporary new age electronic stuff. As mentioned, I'm a total foodie, love a good wine as well as premium beers and spirits. I also really appreciate nature and enjoy camping (though I haven't been in a while). Beyond that, another big love of mine is travel, whether it be a spontaneous weekend getaway to someplace nearby or a planned out vacation to other countries. Last but far from least, I'm a big time cuddler, love holding a guy close and caressing and stroking him all over, especially in one particular place when it comes to stroking...
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My Ideal Person:
I'd like to find a young white guy preferably between 18 and about 35 (21 to 30 most ideal) with similar interests and has a sincere, easy going and open minded personality who's either like me, not one to fit into any typical gay mold or even better a dude that's always been curious but has been holding off on exploring his interest in men or maybe anyone, male or female. Or, perhaps a guy that has just come to realize that finding a guy to be friends with, hang out and do guy stuff with as well as behind closed doors giving and receiving physical pleasure to/from each other could be a cool idea and a better option to the usual terms and conditions of the status quo chick pursuit and without the worries of anyone getting pregnant (though I sure would be into you trying to impregnate me... ) An older bro/younger bro, dad/son or teacher/student type of relationship I think is what I'm after (yeah, I'd love to help a young guy learn how to fuck like a real man, maybe even take it like a man too). I also tend to relate best to a guy that's more of the geek type if not totally so. Also, it would be really cool to find a young man who has little experience in life generally speaking as well as in being with another man sexually. A guy who I could introduce to new places, things and/or experiences as well as share my acquired wisdom and offer emotional support whenever he needs it. I'm not looking to be a sugar daddy or anything like that, but at the same time I'm open to picking up the slack if need be so that we might share a fun experience together.
Some physical pluses in a guy for me would definitely be facial hair or body hair (including pubes), facial hair AND body hair would be the ultimate attraction for me. But, naturally smooth can be just as hot to me. I'm also particularly attracted to really fair complexioned guys (red heads, blondes, blue eyes, etc.). A nicely proportioned and hard man unit would be cool too (nice doesn't have to = super huge) cut or uncut, it's all good, especially if you really know how to use it... However these are all pluses and NOT required. I'm much more interested in what's between your ears rather than what's between your legs, but if you've got it going on in both places, all the better! Oh, and one last thing, I'm into all builds, rail skinny, average or beefy/husky/chubby, again it's all good
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