Edited: I am off the market right now. I have found someone who really cares for me, and I am going to give that a shot and see how it works out. So, for now, I'm open to meeting friends who are like minded that I can talk about aspects of the lifestyle with.
I am not looking for one night stands. If that is all you want LOOK ELSEWHERE! I do not meet people without talking to them for at least a little while online. I will not meet the first day I talk to you. I do not want married men unless you are playing as part of a couple.
I am looking for a mate. A partner. Someone compatible with me, someone who likes similar things as I do and is willing to try new things as well. I like a dominant man who knows what he wants and is willing to go after that. I am a strong willed person, but will submit to the right one. I like to laugh and have a good time. I am always joking, but I know that there is a time to be serious and a time to just have a good time. I like to have an equal match of both of those. I am not a doormat, but I love to please the person that I'm with. I get the utmost joy out of that. I like to feel wanted and needed and enjoy giving that same thing to my partner. I like to have a good time, as much as possible. Yes, there is work and jobs and friends, but I like to spend time with the person that I want to be with. Giving them what they need and getting what I need back in return. To me, communication and trust are key to any sort of relationship. And those things are even more important in the type of relationship that I am looking for. I am not going to waste my time playing games or anything like that. I do not play mind games, and do not want them played with me either.
I love to have sex, but its not what I am here for exactly, but I really, really like it 
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My Ideal Person:
I need trust, communication, good sex and compatibility. I am not interested in meeting married men, as my main goal is to really find the one I want to be with for the rest of my life. I just need a lot and need to be able to have my attention fully devoted to one person and have their attention devoted to me. I am to please and nothing makes me happier than being with a person whose company I enjoy. I don't want to play games. I'm not looking to hurt anyone and never would intentionally, so if that's the game you play, keep looking.
I consider myself a submissive and am active in the BDSM lifestyle. I like things kinky and am not content in a standard "vanilla" relationship. If that's all a bit too much for you, then perhaps I'm not the one. I'm up for trying new things and have very few hard limits, but it is very important to me that those are respected at all times.
I am looking for someone that I can have an intelligent conversation with. I need to be stimulated intellectually just as much as I do sexually, and without that, the other one rarely happens. So please, at least be able to carry discourse in at least one subject reasonably well.
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