If you would like to contact me, please read my profile in its entirety first. I realize it is long but if you do not have the patience to do so, we would not be a good match so I wish you success with the next profile. 
I am non-monogamous as well as kinky however the non-monogamy aspect takes much more precedence over the kinky aspects for what is important to me in a potential relationship. On the whole, I seek relations with others who are experienced with polyamory/non-monogamy/cuckolding and are clear that this style of relating works really well in their life. If this does not describe you, please enjoy the next profile.
I don't carry with me a predefined set of criteria for what type or form of relation I seek - I like to meet and experience different people and allow each relationship to take whatever form it will take naturally. If we both enjoy and wish to continue whatever develops, great! If not, that is okay, too. That said, however, I AM seeking a primary-style relationship because secondary and tertiary style relationships, while they are awesome, I have plenty of them and would prefer something a little more meaningful and time intensive. Whether or not it goes in that direction, I would prefer you at least have the AVAILABILITY time and interest-wise for a relationship of a primary nature.
A list of things I enjoy to give you a better sense of who I am:
*Dancing - not clubbing, but ballroom style. My favorite dance styles thus far are samba, merengue, cha cha, rhumba, and waltz. I'm also great with the tango, salsa, hustle, swing, fox trot, and various others. I've attended events such as PEERS which is great fun and I attend various other social dancing events as I learn about them and time permits.
*Games - all kinds! I have a truly massive collection of board and card games. I host a monthly games day/night which includes anything from board games, card games, video games, and D&D 3.5 or the occasional other RPG.
*Socializing - whenever I appear listless, stick me in an engaging social situation and I will perk right up every time. I'm rather extroverted in that regard. I enjoy everything from going out for coffee, eating out, sitting around at home talking or going out and about to a nice location to chat, either in pairs or in groups both small and large.
*Cooking - I almost quit grad school to become a chef, but I am SO glad to keep it as a hobby rather than a job. I've been cooking a lot more now that I'm not eating out all the time and it's so much more fun to cook for others than just myself.
*Driving - as the name indicates, I own a Miata. I enjoy driving it around town, on winding roads in general, as well as on the track. I engage (when finances and time allows) in high performance driver's education (HPDE) events. I also enjoy working on my car and was very excited to get a low profile floor jack for xmas. hehe
*Other things that I tend to do in my spare time, with or without others: watch movies, work on my websites, chat online, study web development/programming, host events of various types both large and small, blog, listen to music, pester people to hang out, among many other things.
Please note that I will ONLY accept friend network requests from those whom I know (and like) in person. If you are interested in making contact with me, write a proper message.
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My Ideal Person:
I do well spending time with other extroverted people because they liven me up the most and they are more likely to enjoy the types of activities that I enjoy without getting exhausted by the experience.
I seek non-monogamous and/or cuckolding relationships. Again, it is important to me that you have experience with this relationship style and are clear that it works well for you. Bonus points if in your first message you indicate WHY you are clear it works for you.
A successful match with me will likely be with someone who is well educated, socially extroverted, sexually experienced, near my age, local, financially solvent, and emotionally stable. No really, read that sentence again. I'll wait. Bonus points if you are really good at and enjoy giving foot massages. Major negative points if you think that just because you are charming/have a giant cock/are a Twue Dominate Master/etc. that it will make up for not being the things that I've specifically listed as important to me in a partner.
I prefer someone who is ambitious and very intelligent - someone that stimulates and challenges my intellectual and sensual sensibilities. There could also be d/s aspects with the power tilting in either of our directions or it could be vanilla and I would be equally happy as long as we get along well and have fun together.
Whatever the relationship type, ideally your social and/or work schedule would allow us to spend time together a few times per week (provided we are a good match and both wanted to, of course). I'm open to meeting people where we would not get to spend this much time together either due to schedule or distance though my preference ~most definitely~ leans towards those who are more readily available.
Due to my sexual preferences, if you are seeking a relationship with me, you need to have above average endurance to keep up with the variety of angles, positions, and good, hard thrusting that I prefer sexually. I have no interest in anything gentle or "making love." I don't care how great your ego leads you to believe that you are, most people cannot keep up with me. That said, do not send me pictures of your cock to "prove" anything to me. I know what one looks like. When I want to see yours, believe me, you will know.
Lastly, take note that I expect your profile to contain pictures of your face (at the very least) and your communications with me to be much more creative than "want to chat?" or "how r u?" as well as displaying that you grasp the basic rules of spelling and grammar if you would like to be taken seriously by me.
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