My Ideal Person:
I am looking for playmates close to my age. I realize that there are 40 year olds that act like immature children and 20 year olds with maturity well beyond their years. However, I am not looking for a "daddy experience" or looking to be the older woman in a "MILF" experience. And I'm unlikely to be interested in someone barely old enough to drink alcohol legally.

I'm mostly attracted to brunettes (men) or redheads/brunettes (women). I'm pretty neutral about blondes with either gender. I'm typically not attracted to redheaded men.

If you are an EXPERIENCED top or master with a bounty of toys and fetish gear, you will get my interest. If you are a hot aggressive lesbian daddy you will most CERTAINLY get my interest. If you are a hot stud who is flexible enough to suck your own cock, let me know. I...LOVE...THAT. But even as such, the chemistry has to be right or the experience is worth nothing to me.

You must be attractive, athletic/fit-average build (and by average I mean slim or height-weight proportionate), have an intellect to match, sexually experienced and respectful of boundaries. While I do not have the physique of a Playboy Bunny, I do have standards. If I turn you down, do not hound me as to why. I am here to find people who will hopefully enrich my life, not to accept mediocrity for sex's sake.

Ladies I enjoy either butchy leather dyke daddies or ultra feminine women like myself. I enjoy women who put themselves together well, take pride in their appearance, and like to get dolled up. A sense of fashion and personal style go a long way with me. I don't expect you to be decked out in Gucci but don't come to meet me looking like you're on your way to go camping.

I WILL STATE THIS AGAIN TO BE CLEAR: IF YOU CONTACT ME I EXPECT YOU TO ATTACH PHOTOS TO YOUR MESSAGE. If I can tell you have not taken the time to read through my profile, you probably won't get much of a reply (if any) from me. I need to see what you look like. Gyno shots are not enough. I'm a grown woman, I know what genitals looks like. I'm going to want to see what you look like at some point, right? If you're that apprehensive about not allowing me to see what you look like from the get-go, then please don't waste my time or yours.

I love tattoos but I AM NOT A FAN OF MOST BODY MODIFICATIONS AND EXTREME BODY MODIFICATIONS GIVE ME THE HEEBIE JEEBIES. I DO NOT LIKE GENITAL PIERCINGS. PERIOD, END OF STORY. THEY ARE A TURN OFF. In terms of facial piercings, if you would have problems going through airport security because of all the metal shit in your face I most likely wouldn't find much interest in you based on sheer personal preference of what I find attractive. I do find well done and artistic tattoos very sexy.

I do prefer NON-cigarette/cigar smokers as the scent of ashtrays does NOT put me in a sexy mood. If you're a smoker, please do not come to meet me smelling like smoke and do not smoke around me. I am also not comfortable with heavy drinkers or heavy drug users. I am "420 friendly" as long as you are not habitual about it. I'm not interested in alcoholics or coke-hounds.

I PREFER CIRCUMSIZED COCK. I'll probably catch crap for that, but its what I prefer. PLEASE HAVE YOUR SHIT WELL GROOMED, SHAVED OR NEATLY TRIMMED. I don't care to have my mouth full of pubic hair.

I ALWAYS use condoms with any other men other than my husband. This is NOT NEGOTIABLE. My husband had a vascetomy and I am no longer using birth control and I believe in safe sex. If you are a well endowed man (and I do love 'em big) please supply your own condoms that work well for you. Don't bitch that you want to go bareback because your rubber is too tight. That isn't my problem. There are hundreds of rubbers available for you to purchase. Its not up to me to find one that works for you. Your dick, your problem.

What I am looking for sexually/what I am into. I like dominant men who can toss me around and put me in my place. I looooove lesbian leather daddys that would allow me the privilege to be topped by them. I do love playing the role of a submissive but I'm not into 24/7 or what I consider to be "extreme" BDSM. I have limits, I am a human and you don't have carte blanche to do whatever you please without my consult first. I am a SWITCH through and through. I am no one's slave, no one's doormat and certainly noone's punching bag. I can play a dominant role but it isn't something that is my first choice.

I do have a habit of being an insolent mouthy sub and topping from the bottom. Therefore, the type of role playing that I most enjoy is powerplay/brat play. But I interested in playing with an EXPERIENCED DOM who can maybe take me to another level, and perhaps push some soft limits. I enjoy spanking, biting, erotic asphyxiation/choking, and mild to average bondage and dominance. I like anal play (giving and receiving) and love hot bi men (or straight men who like anal) to be at the receiving end of my strap on.

I very much love anal play but not always to be the receiving end of anal sex. I have not allowed many men in my past to enter my ass with their cocks. I consider it to be a privilege, not a right. If you think you're automatically going to get anal from me, you're very much mistaken.

Questions? Ask me. I hope to meet interesting and sexy people (maybe you?) soon.