09/07/10
I am currently in a wonderful relationship with someone that I truly care about. We are in an open relationship, especially since I travel a lot.
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i am not sure i would be considered a slave. i dont think that is what i desire. i do not need someone to direct my life... i would prefer to find someone who wants to share our lives together.
what does excite me is the thought of being used. i crave someone who thrills in taking their slut in whatever way pleases them...
my fantasies (since i was in my teens) have always incorporated complete sexual submission with punishment for my indiscretions.
i get wet just thinking of being bent over your knee bare bottom;
i have found that i prefer to play a bit on the edgy side... i have been flogged, whipped, spanked, paddled, caned, etc. i have enjoyed nipple play, clamps, etc. and being restrained and/or confined.
i am willing to have my limits pushed, but i draw a hard line at scat, an1mals, and any sort of permanent injury. i really hate hard bites - they hurt a LOT! i enjoy having my face slapped, but i have tmj and that usually messes with my jaw - bummer.
as for a bit about me:
the person that i describe above is only a part of me. i work in the corporate world as a consultant and that part of my life has its own set of demands. i certainly enjoy playing, but i also seem to need to "turn off" this side of me when i need to take care of the rest of my life. i would love to find someone who i can talk to about the work day and be supportive when things are difficult. i don't think i am not looking to be "owned", although maybe that feeling would come with time. who knows.
i am quite independent and i think it will take a strong confident man who can control me.
i prefer to meet other professionals who understand the demands of the corporate world. i am a city girl and i am not looking for a country boy. i do not like country music and i don't want to learn to like it. i prefer to listen to techno music or alternative music if that gives you an understanding of who i am.
i like to cook and enjoy trying out new foods. i also enjoy gardening. i am equally comfortable going to a play or concert as i am staying at home and reading a book. you will probably have a hard time pulling me away from a party in which i am enjoying myself. i like meeting new people.
i am not a morning person at all. i need a good hour to wake up with my morning coffee during which time i am not the most pleasurable to be around.
i like the odd and bizarre - i think its neat to see a kid with purple hair or see that crazy movie that no one can make sense of. i know this makes no sense when considering the corporate side of me - it's just a matter of knowing when to let this side of me come out. i am sure most people on this website can understand what i mean 
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My Ideal Person:
who knows what we are looking for on this website. i suppose i am still searching for what everyone is looking for. that perfect mate... somone you crave to be around. of course, distractions along the way are also fun!
i prefer someone who works in the corporate world... who has the class to go to a business luncheon, but the demon inside to keep mine sated.
i am looking for someone with a strong hand when the time is right, and can relax and be a friend at other times.
i need somone who is intelligent... creative and logical. who likes to laugh and joke around, have interesting conversations, and try new things.
i really dont want someone who needs me to call them Master all of the time... or to have all related pronouns capitalized (a particular pet peeve). i do enjoy saying those things doing play... but i dont think it fits very well with vanilla life.
i need someone with a strong will... sometmes i "forget my place", so to speak, and need some reminding
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