My Ideal Person:
Well, it seems the offers from 'gimme subs' are steady. So, lets see if I can make this more clear. This is not an offer to anyone for a fling...for a get together for your sexual pleasure. I don't care how talented you think your tongue is.

I am quite serious that I want someone who is quite serious about connection.

So, I have no desire for more offers from you bois to get together with me from time to time....not interested if that's ALL you want. I understand connection takes time...but so many of you (by your responses) just want to play...and nothing more. Nah, get in line, take a number....I have tons of men who are willing to play (some of them are already well trained).

Is this clear?

And while we are on the subject of clarity...cigarette smokers need not apply.

So, I am not always a bitch, but don't like wasting my time...while you apprently are thinking you can talk me into what I don't want. That's not how it works.

Looking forward to hearing from the real deals...the ones who can (eventually) join me and serve me full time and the mutual feeding of needs will create a lifetime of bliss.

May 08 UPDATE

I have made a selection, and now have a 24/7 sub who has excellent potential in many ways. I still seek a poly household and would love to hear from someone who believes you may be a good fit to join us.

8 09 update...Life has changed. I am without a live-in sub again. The separation happened for good reasons, I allowed it. We still talk daily, but don't expect he will be back to live. Please don't mistake this to mean I seek a playmate...I still seek a live in mate. Please ask if you have questions.

Studup please find me.