Let me make this perfectly clear right up front, because I'm tired of people ignoring what I've said further into my profile - if you are MARRIED, please DO NOT CONTACT ME!
I'm a corporate professional type by day that prefers to keep my kinks private. I'm tall (6 feet) and full-figured (but working on getting in better shape). I'm also trying to quit smoking - this is my year! I've got a lot of interests outside of BDSM, and a pretty busy life in the vanilla world - active in community theater, love to travel, very active social life. I'm passionate about a lot of things besides my kinks. 
I'm an incorrigible flirt, a woman that is a little too aware of men turning to look at me, a woman that enjoys being the center of attention. I'm very sexual and sensual. I am a strong, capable woman that can take care of myself. I'm also a woman who deep down inside is a little girl wanting nothing more than to be spoiled and cared for by a strong man who is confident and secure enough to enjoy my antics when appropriate (I CAN be rather amusing when I'm up to no good...lol), but who also will not hesitate to reel me in when need be. In vanilla relationships, I find myself being quite the brat, always knowing deep down in my heart that I'm really hoping the poor guy will finally put his foot down and say "enough".
Ultimately, I'm looking for a long term relationship, but right now I'm just dating and enjoying my life. I'm not really looking for a 24/7 lifestyle, but in a long term relationship I do like to incorporate some aspects of D/s into everyday life, basically forming a relationship that is unique to the two of us and that works for both. In a dating relationship, I hope for someting that is wildly kinky, with the added benefit of being able to do things together in vanilla land.
I'm particular about who I play with, and I open up slowly as trust and respect grow. I flourish when there is affection, a deep connection and trust with a man - it's the only time I can truly let myself go to fully explore my "dark side" and push my boundaries. I'm looking for something special - that special feeling that the safest place on earth is over my lover's knee. It's not an easy thing to find, but it's truly amazing, almost spiritual, when I do find it.
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My Ideal Person:
The guy that will catch my interest is the guy that understands the mental aspects of D/s and knows that he has to get into my head first and foremost. He'll be confident and sure of himself, but not arrogant. He'll be comfortable with a strong-willed, assertive woman that truly enjoys being sexually submissive. He'll have his life in order, and have interests outside of his kinks. Basically, I'm looking for a "normal" guy that is also madly kinky. Am I asking for too much?
I'm open to making new friends on here with any interesting people, but I'm only open to single men for dating and sexual relationships. Thanks for respecting my preferences. 
I do not have the Alt Messenger installed, so please send mail instead of PM'ing me.
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