My Ideal Person:
I am looking for an attractive,intelligent,exceptionally hygienic individual or couple with a good sense of humor who doesn't take this fetish or lifestyle seriously in a 24/7 sort of way, and can keep up with my physical needs. I am NOT looking for anyone with a ton of emotional baggage, financial problems, chemical or alcohol dependency. I understand things happen to all of us which we need to deal with, but I am not the solution to your problems, I can be the reward for getting through them on your own. That doesn't mean that I am not caring person and a great friend and listener. I am a very independent and in control person with all aspects of my life. I may like to be a bit submissive in bed, but for everything else, I make my own decisions. I DO want someone to be with me for the same reasons I am looking for ... similar interests, great companionship, and great physical relationship. I may be picky about emotional stability in someone, however I am not as picky in physical attributes... Attractive, Intelligent, Reasonably physically fit (a few extra pounds don't bother me), Clean and DISEASE FREE is VERY IMPORTANT! Hopefully I didn't just cut everyone off the list with my demands. So if you made it this far and are still interested..... lol, please write and say hello! I do try to get back to everyone who writes me whether I am interested or not. BTW... just telling me what you'd like to do to me in the first email, without a hello and introduction, will just be deleted without a response, so don't waste your time if you can't be polite and with manners.