I am a married woman and with my husbands consent do at this present moment have a Dom. My Dom is moving out of the state so we will no longer be able to play.
I am looking for another Dom who is willing to continue my training, exploration and help me to grow as a sub. You may contact my current Dom if you would like to better understand our Dynamics and where he has taken me so far.
I am not looking for a live in or 24/7 position but someone who is willing to work with me being married. Im not looking for just sex either, I have a very active and fulfilling sex life with my husband. I want someone who will treat my submission as a gift and not think I am a doormat or slave to just be ordered about.
I have been the internet only route, been there done that and it is far from what Im looking for.
I want a R/T Dom
My Ideal Person:
I am looking for a firm but understanding Dom. Who has experience with Submissives not one who says he does and does not, someone who is well read and educated in most of the aspects of BDSM and has had real life experience.
He should know the ins and outs of all the toys he uses, please be willing to discuss his experience with my current Dom and myself. I am looking for the real thing not a "wanna be" I will know the difference when we talk. Only serious Dom's apply no sense in wasting your time or mine. I will only play under SSC or RACK rules.
What type of scene activities are you active in or would you be interested in exploring?:
Biting, Bondage, Breast/Nipple Torture, Collar & Lead/Leash, Enemas, Food Play, Genital torture, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Kidnapping, Role Play, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Verbal humiliation, Voyeurism, Whipping
The term BDSM covers a lot of ground. What's your scene?:
B&D - Bondage and Discipline, D&S - Domination and submission, S&M - Sadism and masochism
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My Ideal Person:
My former Dom asked me what I was looking for this was my reply to Him.
Here is what I have thought about:
First I have come to the conclusion that I am honestly not quite sure what I am really looking for but they would definately have to be like you as in being someone that I can talk to about anything that is on my mind whether it is bdsm related or not. Someone who is easy going but strict when needed. Tender, rough. Someone who when I am told to look at them I get a shiver that runs down my spine seeing the controled emotions and power in their eyes. Someone who will not hesitate to punish me for the slightest infraction I may make. But also at the same time teach me not to do it again not just through the punishment. Someone who will knowingly make me want to do what they ask of me and not be forced to do it. But then again being forced sometimes isn't a bad thing. Someone who will let me be me not a robot programed to do their every wish without a thought of my own. Someone who will take the time to find out what I am capable of and push it just a bit further even when I may say I don't want to. Someone who is willing to spend the time and effort to teach me what I don't know and put up with a million questions. The person I am looking for is you and there isn't anyone that I have talked to yet that has even come close. Yes you definately spoiled me in letting me be me and molding me as I am not changing me. If there was any changing it was me that did it. I would like to learn the submissive things that I don't know now like kneeling at their feet and whatever else goes along with it. Not that it is what I want but so that I know beyond a shadow of a doubt I have learned everything there is to learn even that side of it. Now you know what is in my head on what I think a perfect Dom is.
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