Service oriented. Still have my training wheels on, but comfortable in my own skin. Relate best to men 35-50yo, women my age.
Ready to give in to the fantasies I've kept in fantasyland too long.
Things I've tried and enjoyed: receiving spankings, servicing (sexual and non-sexual), w/s (part of service), worship (sexual and non-sexual, also).
Haven't tried, but would like to: bondage/ropes, sensory deprivation, electro, breath control (w/ cigar smoke, too), have my limits/experiences expanded.
Would like to become comfortable enough with one playmate that we can trust each other for exploration.
Not currently a paying member (switch on/off a few times a year), so, you'll need to make the first move.
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My Ideal Person:
Much more interested in a Dominant person. I like assertiveness, frankness, and some aggressiveness. Looking to follow your lead. I am attracted to people who are happy with who they are, even a bit arrogant. However, not really into asshole-personalities or abusiveness. Treat me with respect and you'll own me.
Ideally, looking for an ongoing thing, with or without emotional involvement. I'm single and physically and emotionally available. Your call (well, depends on chemistry, of course, but if we "click" I'm open to possibilities).
Also, can't have too many friends, so even if we don't gel for play, I'm always happy to grab a beer/burger/IM session with a fellow kinkster.
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