i am submissive...in and out of the lifestyle for a while now. i have no intentions of leaving it again. Gaining my trust is a hard thing to do. i try to give everyone a chance...but once you push beyond my comfort level and i have not invited you there...we are done. simple as that. i am sincere in finding who i am inside, and i feel i am on the right road to do just that. although i appear to have a sweet, sometimes shy disposition, i have no problem telling you to get lost if i feel you are not good for me. thru my adventures i have found that i can switch for the right woman. i have even been called..of all things..a sadist...but im sure she was just kidding. winks. i am a private person. i dont play publicly...and i dont care for any liasons i may have to be put out there...unless i decide to do so myself. i have learned alot from Some that were gracious enough to take time with me...and show me things i never knew existed. for that...i thank Them. i dont consider myself a pain slut. but there is a level that i do adore. i love leather...everything about it. the smell, the feel, the 'pop n sting' that comes from it. in a public setting i tend to be very quiet. im not a snob nor am i a bitch...however...if provoked...i have been known to be a bit cruel. all in all...im a good person. very loyal to my friends. i have my faults and am far from perfect. i look forward to my future and delving deeper within myself. i also should say that i am looking for long term. i have had the 'play' type relationships....and now its time to settle a bit. im not looking for a poly type relationship. i am not looking to be 'the other woman' either. so you must be either single/divorced/widowed. i feel i must add here..that i am a BBW...so if this bothers you...kindly move along.
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My Ideal Person:
i am looking for the One who is confident, passionate, sensual, has a sense of humor, caring, honest, spontaneous...and a very wicked side . i prefer One that likes to take charge without wanting to hurt. Someone who is secure with who they are and what they want.
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