Update 1-13-2012: Still seeing a local cd sub whom I met via this site. Things are going really well thus far. Not looking for additional cd/tg or male subs to serve me at this time. Friendship requests are still Ok. I have Room for the right female sub, but not in a hurry to find her.
Welcome to my profile page...My name is Mistress Karen. I am a Non-pro Dominant, 7+ years serious involvement in the lifestyle, who is also an attractive BBW lady. I love to talk about D/s and enjoy growing local connections with like minded people for friendships, outings, events, and munches within the philly area.
Outside of D/s I am a chef and full time college student. I am finishing up a business degree (one class to go!) and also now working on a degree in psychology. I was a pastry chef for a decade and still do wedding cakes and sculptural cakes on the side. I dabble in writing and enjoy art and artistic pursuits.
I am a very original person, I definitely follow the beat of my own drum. I love to laugh and have a good time. I adore girly boys in all forms and I think that they make very special, unique, subs. Also bi-curious and interested in testing the waters with a female sub. I love tattoos and punk/alternative looks as well as pin-ups, and retro/vintage clothing.
My relationships:
I am married and my husband has had fun being present or watching certain aspects of my sub's training if everyone is agreeable, and when I see fit. He is curious about bdsm, and supportive, but not as involved as I am--he is mostly vanilla. We are a loving couple with an excellent relationship. We have been married for 10 years and together for 14.
Full time, or live-in service, is not on the menu at this time.
I have a wonderful t-girl, madison, collared to me. Yay! We have been together nearly 2 years. She lives a fair distance so cannot be around for every event or spontaneous play. She is a gorgeous 27 year old Cd/Tg. My second girl Allison is an equally gorgeous 23 year old cd. They are both collared to me and devoted. I would like to add a part-time bi-sexual female sub to the mix to serve me with all that entails. If you are such a girl and interested, read on...
More about me as a Mistress and what I seek in a sub:
The mental side of domination is important to me I want to learn about my sub, find out what makes them tick--get in their head a little and explore all the good spots. I'm more into creative spontaneity rather than repetitive protocols in general, though protocols can develop with time.
I enjoy androgynous/gender fluid boys, CDs, and TGs as subs and usually I seek out those individuals when I am looking for a new partner. I like my sub to be well groomed to my standard which always includes being shaved smooth.
My D/s interests include (but are not limited to):
sexual role reversal, Strapon sex. Topping. Name calling & pet names, teasing and denial. Sexy clothes and shoes, feminization. Spanking, flogging, discipline, tiny tortures, breast torture, nipple play, cbt, cbb. Outdoor play/bondage. Sexual situations and games. Medical play. Facesitting. Bondage and rope work, tightly wrapped saran and bondage tape. Predicaments. Slut training. Body worship, Orgasm control/chastity. Forced orgasms/humiliating orgasms. Gags and blindfolds. All kinds of Ass play--insertables, enemas. Objectification. Servitude and light maid service. I enjoy seeing my sub wearing whatever outfits I have picked out for them. I gravitate toward punk, pinup glamour, girly-goth, and trashy but cute styles.
I encourage my sub to do more and go farther than ever before and have fun doing it. I have not done allot of public play to date and would like to include more of that in the future.
I like to get my way and I like to be amused. I strive to be innovative and am open to new things, ideas, and techniques. I relish control and I like to see my sub helpless. I prefer subs with strong fetishes and I enjoy reactive subs who get red, look shocked, or are verbally responsive.
I prefer to wear the cock in my D/s relationships.
Honesty and openness a __MUST__ in anyone I associate with. I am a very truthful, direct and straightforward person and I expect a similar ethic in return.
I believe a sub has to be self-supporting and be able to drive to me. They must be motivated and willing to work at maintaining a D/s commitment. I have found in the past many individuals who want the fantasy of being a sub/slave, but cannot cope with the reality of upkeeping grooming, doing tasks, or other things which are important to me and which they initially agreed to. What a person can accomplish and tolerate in reality is more important to me than fantasies that are not realistic. I like intelligent people who can be social outside of D/s and who like laughter and good conversations.
Ideally I enjoy long term connections with one or two subs, or strong friendships. I don't enjoy one time playdates. I am past the "try it out" stage and I don't want to waste my time with someone who isn't sure if they want to serve, or who can't maintain something equal to a vanilla friendship with me. I find the sensual side of domination very personal and prefer to share that with only individuals I know well. Lately I am discovering my polyamorous tendencies, but not sure where(if anywhere)they will lead.
Friendships with Dominants and submissives for camaraderie, fellowship, exchange of ideas are always welcome.
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My Ideal Person:
Cute bisexual female sub, fairly local, for part time service. No drama. Be fun and intelligent and dedicated.
Friendship with those real people interested in actively participating in the local bdsm community.
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