... or at least that has been my experience! UPDATE: Since 5/5/2009 I am down 113#'s thanks in large part to the LapBand surgery, I feel 10 years younger and still dropping! I am ready for meeting new friends and play if we are so inclined. Thanks to everyone for your support during this time of change for me! *NOTE* I leave my computer logged in all the time. If I don't respond when you IM me, I may not be at my desk, just shoot me an e-mail if I don't respond. I am a big guy... I was around 270 in the army pic, around 390 in the suit and tie pic and I got up to nearly 430 in the other pic. I got the LapBand survery on 5/5/2009 and I am currently working with a trainer and down well over 100# the past 2+ years in route to being lean again. If big guys are not your thing, I am not your guy (or just give me a year or so! ... Apparently most of the single males on this site are complete assholes, so I will start with the same disclaimer that everyone else uses... NO SINGLE MALES!!!! LOL Now that is settled...
I am first of all seeking friends and I have no expectations after that. Anything else that develops is simply "icing on the cake" so to speak. I come from quite a conservative background sexually and have finally shaken my misconceptions to allow myself to explore my sensuality. I am very receptive to any and all info/feedback that anyone is willing to provide. I have my limits and respect the limits of others. I am open-minded, honest & down to earth. I am single/never married (just haven't found the "right one" yet) live alone in my own home. I require and provide complete discretion. I have absolutely no expectations of our friendship; I am a firm believer that one can NEVER have too many friends! I have always been shy and now I am trying to explore the DOM side of my personality. I am a big man; I get the phrase "big teddy bear" all the time to describe me. Well, that is a great deal of info here, if you would like to know anything else, drop me an e-mail either here or my personal e-mail address.... Feel free to ask anything, and I mean anything, so don't worry.
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My Ideal Person:
Open minded, sexually free (meaning not prude) and fun to be around. Great sense of humor a plus.
I am not a "shallow" person and don't base "sexiness" solely upon looks as most seem to do, I am a FIRM believer that "sexy" is far more about attitude, or a look given or a thing said or... you get the picture. I would love to hear from anyone who wishes to write, nothing ventured nothing gained!!! A giant pet peeve of mine is I cannot deal with or stand to be around bigots, whether that is racial bigotry, political bigotry/eliteism, financial snobbery/bigotry, social bigotry or any type of bigotry, bigots need not write or call, crawl back under a rock with the rest of your "hate monger" friends and evolve for a while.
Describe your Fantasies and Desires Too many to describe! I love role-playing, I will be the teacher, and you will be the student...... Youre the sexy Hitch hiker and I pick you up... I am holding interviews for my new personal assistant and you have to convince me you are the one for the job... I have a great imagination that keeps on going and cumming up with new ideas... do you have any for me??? 
Describe your Bisexuality...if applicable I apologize but I am straight. I am by no means a homophobe, but I am afraid that men don't interest me in that way. Sorry guys!
Extra Notes Single White Professional Male seeking women/couples/groups for fun and friendship without head games. I am sick of the bar scene and the entire BS that goes along with it. I am looking for people for friendship (friendship first and most important, then...), fun and sex. I would like to find a long term open relationship with that illusive special female but it seems the harder I look the less I find. Write me and lets talk about it.
Just a gent, looking for the right lady to have fun with and see where it goes! I would love to find something long-term if there is anyone out there that feels the same way, let me know!
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