I'm extremely happy in a long-term relationship, and my partner/sub (note the order of those words...) is not only very attractive, but intelligent, articulate, creative, thoughtful and extremely kinky too. I'm a very lucky and very happy guy...
I've got high standards and I value a lot of things very highly; honesty, courtesy, manners, respect and consideration to name but a few. Consequently I don't want someone calling me Sir or Master, and I don't address them as slut or whore... at least until we've got to know one another!
I've been active on the scene in/around London for mumble mumble years, although circumstances have conspired to keep me from going to the clubs as much recently.
I'm articulate (usually), relaxed, intelligent (sometimes) and unpretentious (hopefully), with a good sense of humour (my story, and I'm sticking to it!). I'm not particularly fond of using traditional labels - they don't tell nearly enough about people and just serve to pigeon-hole them; having said that people would describe me as a dom. Essentially though, I'm me, and that's just a small part of what makes the whole. It's always there, so one could consider it that it's a 24/7 lifestyle. In a way that's true, since I don't put on a mask (literal or metaphorical) to become Uberdom (complete with y-fronts over leather trousers of course)... At the same time, while it's always there I don't feel the need to constantly display or demonstrate it.
See what I mean about labels? Life's complicated like that...
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My Ideal Person:
Always happy to chat to anyone interesting... We're not here looking "for" anything in particular. (That's always puzzled me... why is it so often assumed that people using the internet are "looking for" something?) Although, being part of a couple where my partner is bi, although we're not actively looking for a third person (ladies only, sorry chaps!) to join us, it's a possibility open to chat about!
But besides that... being a photographer I'm always interested in establishing contact with potential models (experienced or not. and female, male or couples) and publishers/customers. Quite a lot of the shoots that I do are private commissions - individuals or couples wanting erotic presents for their parters, or something to look back on fondly once things have begun to sag a bit... So if you're interested in getting in front of the lens, or asking about having work done or a private commission, feel free to drop me a line.
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