Hello and welcome to my profile. Im a submissive searching for a Dominant, a pet looking for a Master; I'm not, however, looking for a 'daddy' - just not my thing. My ultimate goal is to find a kinky life partner. Until he claims me, Im interested in making friends and meeting play partners.
I would describe myself as intelligent, curious, loyal, and passionate. I have an easy-going, open-minded, go with the flow attitude toward life. A typical introvert, I can come across as reserved or shy, although I prefer to think of myself as deep and introspective; Im not always serious though and can be very playful and full of humor too.
I am naturally submissive. I have a strong desire to please and to show my love and affection by doing for others (sexually or otherwise). I like to be of use and used. I don't mind a little bit of pain or discomfort, although I'm definitely not a painslut. I'm simply interested in sensations that counterbalance the pleasurable ones.
In terms of kinks, I especially enjoy: bondage and being restrained, collar and leash, gags, verbal humiliation, floggers, hair pulling, wearing corsets, TPE, and many more. I find the idea of vulnerability, the uncertainty and anticipation of actions or events beyond my control, and the mix of pain and pleasure deliciously arousing.
I have a variety of interests outside of BDSM. I love reading, films (especially foreign and independent), browsing through bookstores and antique shops, museums, enjoying live music, and exploring new restaurants and cuisines. I'm fairly creative and enjoy 'crafty' pursuits (making my own jewelry, knitting). I love the outdoors and enjoy and respect the beauty of nature; weekends during the spring, summer and fall frequently find me hiking, camping, biking, kayaking/canoeing, or some other outdoorsy activity.
I very much enjoy politics, history and current affairs. As I read a lot and pay attention to what's happening in the world around me, I have definite thoughts and opinions on events past and present and always enjoy intelligent discussions and debates about such topics.
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My Ideal Person:
I want a man who just takes charge and takes what he wants. He will be rough, aggressive, and commanding, yet tender and affectionate as well. I like intelligence and want a partner that can engage my mind as well as my body. I appreciate playfulness and a good sense of humor. Ideally, Id like someone with a fair amount of experience.
My ideal partner will be between 34 and 50. Im fairly open about potential partners physical appearance. Im certainly not perfect and dont expect the same of you. That being said, any potential partner should be in relatively good shape (average to maybe a little extra padding). I am especially attracted to men who are strong and muscular. Bonus points for bald heads and/or facial hair (goatees).
Please note: I am NOT interested in married or attached men; if you have to sneak around or hide your relationship with me from a spouse or significant other - please move on as, again, I'm NOT interested. Additionally, I really do want someone who is naturally dominant. If you identify as a submissive yourself (or are a switch), we could perhaps be friends but I wouldn't be interested in anything more.
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