If you email me and it's obvious you've not READ my entire profile, I am not responding. I'm very happily involved with someone so I'm NOT free. If you still want to contact me, ok then.
There's a saying old - says that love is blind... Still we're often told "Seek and ye shall find" So I'm going to seek a certain lad I have in mind...
There's a somebody I'm longing to see... I hope that he turns out to be Someone who'll watch over me...
Yes, I've found the Daddy who will watch over me. So for all of you that email me looking for your next submissive or flavor of the week, please don't bother. I'm not on the market. 
Obviously just looking to talk with people of like mindsets. Please do not contact me with a "Scene" or "Scenario" (especially those sexual in nature). All other nice, polite emails will be answer in the order in which they were received - said in my best customer service hold voice. Have a great day! Keep hoping and searching!
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My Ideal Person:
Ideal places a very concrete boundary on the most unpredictable thing on earth - humans. I will say this about my "ideal" partner in life...
1. He will not be older than 38 (in 2009). PLEASE DO NOT contact me if you are older than 38. Unless it is a rare case, I guarantee you I will not be interested. I was once married to a man 18 years older so YES I've tried it... NO it didn't work for me.
2. He will have at least some experience within the realm of D/s. I do not believe someone must have practiced BDSM for 40 years to take a submissive... but there is much to be said for someone who has been around the block. If you are brand new or think D/s is something kinky for sex, please do not contact me. My desires are deeper than just sexual --- that does NOT mean you just go deeper in me however.
3. My 'Master' will be my life - heart, body, soul, spirit, future. I want someone who will open up to me as much as He wishes me to open to Him. If I am to be with someone in marriage and in life, I want our hearts to be open to everything -- together. No secrets, no hidden wishes, no past mistakes hiding in the closet... He will be open and honest.
4. As every woman will say, I want a partner who is funny. Someone who can make me laugh when I have a bad day is as much a perfect catch as someone who can arouse me until i lose my mind in orgasm. Capture my mind and you will win my heart...
5. Finding someone who doesn't view me as inferior is a must. Yes I am a submissive... but that does not make me worth less as a human being. I will serve you because it is engrained in me - not because I think I'm scum and worthless. If I was a worthless stupid girl, would you feel proud to call me yours? I would hope not. I work hard to be an intelligent, contributing member of society and I seek someone who would recognize this and CHERISH it.
5. Someone who is willing to let me change my mind occasionally is a must... You'll eventually see why.
There are other things but they will come up in conversation if we get that far. And to everyone honestly and whole-heartedly searching for their "ideal" mate on alt, Good Luck. We're all going to need it...
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