I'm interested in exploring submission in a serious way, but not 24/7. I'm a professional and I value my career and friends and family, and would hope to maintain a vanilla-ish public life. I've thought a lot about what my limits are, but I can never make a definitive list because what I will and won't do all completely depends on the type of relationship we establish and the extent to which we establish trust between us (which *should* go without saying, but I'm tired of men making sexual demands when they contact me via e-mail). I describe myself as a good girl because I cannot stand disappointing anyone and my sincerest desire as a submissive would be to never make a mistake. In my public life, I'm assertive and articulate, even intense. I know how to be intimidating and have a fast, smart mouth. Most people who know me would never guess that I would be even remotely submissive in the bedroom (they would think precisely the oppposite).
I fight insomnia practically on a daily basis, and I'm convinced that being punished for it would help me sleep! I'm an easy blusher if you know what to say, and I am extremely, almost painfully, ticklish.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm interested in finding a patient and compassionate but uncompromising dominant man with book smarts, street smarts, and a definite interest in the psychology of D/s as well as the physical side. I live in my head and want someone who will respect that and humor it, but who will seek to pull me out of it as well. I want someone verbal/literate and intense--that's deeply important to me, because I want to grow through this experience, which requires honest, frequent communication. Ideally, you'll have the same goal. I would want to establish an intellectual/psychological/emotional connection with you as a preface to The Other Stuff. So don't contact me if you are just looking for a fast hook-up: I'm a good girl, remember?
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