After exploring for 12 years, I have had a chance to be a part of many styles, fantasies, and fetishes. The most important lesson I have learned through the years is that my kink keeps evolving, influenced by those I meet and new experiences.
I consider myself incredibly fortunate to be in the most amazing relationship where all things kink and fetish and vanilla life have come together beautifullyÂ
didnÂt think it was possible so let it give hope to others.
I am primarily a submissive but I have been letting my dominant energies emerge recently. My style on both sides is real and natural yet still playful. While these explorations can be intense and life changing, I also think they should be fun and positive. I insist on strong communications. The conversations are often not easy  sometimes being honest with yourself first about what you need is the hardest part - but without it the journey is impossible.
I love service and the pleasure that comes from needs and moods being anticipated; the constant reminders that come from focusing on pleasing. I believe in rituals and spirituality but prefer intimate physical and mental connections more than complicated training or scripted formalities. I have fun dressing and have a fetish closet filled with everything from foundation garments to latex to costumes. I enjoy bondage and sensory deprivation; losing the ability to move or your senses can allow the mind to float more quickly. And I like sensations of all types  pain and pleasure.
Probably most of all I like to be with people who are comfortable with themselves, can laugh even, or perhaps most importantly, when things get intense and who are open to and care about the world.
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