UPDATE: I have found a sub that I am currently engaged with. Perhaps at sometime I shall bring another person/persons into our relationship but at the moment I am not actively looking. I might window shop from time to time though.
I am not the screaming, whip cracking Helga the Dominatrix type. I prefer not to Domme through fear or anger. It exhibits more control to force a sub to strain to listen to your every word than it does to blast them with noise. If you have to scream you have already lost control.
I enjoy the sensual elements in my play. Intercourse will likely happen in a session. Absolute honesty is of utmost importance. Be truthful when telling me what you want/enjoy. I feed off the pleasure of others. If you are not enjoying what is being done to you, if it does not make you shiver and moan with want...it will do nothing for me.
I am a smoker. My sub is not. If this is a problem please let me know upfront.
While some Dommes think that intercourse is a sacrifice of power or control, or that an erect penis is an insult, I have other opinions. When you are with me it is no longer your cock, it is mine, my toy to do with as I please. If I want to use it to reach orgasm I will. If I want to sate my oral fixations on it I will. It is mine to control and enjoy. If I want to tie it up and enjoy the colors it changes before I release it (I never want to damage my favorite toy after all..) I will.
Toilet play (scat in particular) is of no interest to me. Foot worship, toe sucking, etc... is nice. Fisting, strap on's, Queening, squirting orgasms, toys, CBT, bondage, hot wax, etc... are favorites but not all I will delve into with the right partner.
Only those of stable mind are welcome to contact me. If you have deeper seated issues I am not here to be a therapist. Do NOT expect more of my time than I am able to give. Do NOT expect passive/aggressive tactics to work on me. Do NOT mistake my kindness or gentleness for weakness, as I assure you it is not. Being offensive, overly needy, passive/aggressive, or demanding will be the fastest way to get ignored and outright offensiveness will get you reported for abuse. I have had a bad experience here that I have learned from. These are absolute deal breakers.
Furthermore, I am a basic member meaning I cannot contact anyone as yet. I cannot see profiles nor sexually explicit profile photos. Winks are very nice and welcome however if you are interested in contact please message me. Include what you are looking for, what your favorite kinks are, a brief description, and any attached photos you wish add.
WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects, advertising, or otherwise beyond the capacity that it is added to this site to be used for the purpose of this site - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.
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My Ideal Person:
I am looking for willing subs, male and female. I would also be interested in joining an established Dom/sub to observe and/or participate to hone my skills and learn from a more experienced Master/Mistress. Personal limits and fantasies need to be shared and discussed prior to engaging in activities to make the experience enjoyable for all.
I will not be playing solo with anyone. My sub will be an active participant in all endeavors. He is 5'8, 46, delicious caramel colored skin, shaved, and fit. He is bi and loves abuse and anal play (receiving). I am his Goddess. Should you engage me plan to have him along as well. He has a preference for transexuals and I support this, finding them rather hot myself. A second sub that might get involved with Us will have to be willing to give anal as I would love to see my boy fucked well, be it by me or by another sub.
Note that even as I would like to learn from others, I do not ever wish to be made into a sub. It will not happen.
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