I read voraciously, laugh frequently, and I'm a tremendous cook. I like board games, historical period-piece movies, science fiction, non-fiction, barbeque, camping, cuddling up with a good DVD, long walks in the rain, wakka wakka wakka. You wanna get to the good stuff, right?
Pull my hair, tie me up, spank me, call me names, force me to submit, turn me on. After several long-term vanilla relationships, followed by years of being single, I finally found someone with whom I can be kinky and committed! I am learning what a joy it can be to serve the right man in a D/S scene, and I also crave very forceful /kidnapping scenes.
I've been with my boyfriend 8 months now and have been domming him about 20% of the time. He has been very patient and encouraging, and is an excellent communicator, and I'm enjoying myself quite a bit! I draw upon my own submissive experiences to guide me as a domme, and seem to be meeting with some success. And yes, I still haven't met a spanking I didn't like, even when it's me spanking someone else! The sense of control is intoxicating.
I have struggled over the years with BDSM. How can I be a fierce independent feminist...who enjoys being sexually dominated? More and more I'm realizing what hard work it is to be so strong and self-starting. I've always had a service-oriented personality and I like being able to relax and feel safe in a submissive role, trusting my partner to take care of me (albeit in different ways) as well as I take care of him.
I'm single, independent, financially and emotionally stable. GGG, safe, sane.
[if254 1]
My Ideal Person:
Having found myself a committed, kinky relationship, I'm still open to meeting new people, ideally men/couples who want to play with me and him both. We're both bi switches, so the possible play combinations are practically endless!
We all have been judged, and judged unkindly, by our non-kinky society. I don't focus on what I don't like, I prefer to pay attention to the good qualities of others. Age, size, height, background, all negotiable. You are YOU, not a collection of traits.
Chemistry is indescribable and must be experienced, not talked about. So let's meet for coffee/drinks/caramels and see what happens.
|
7,130 Members Online NOW!
