Attractive. Ph.D Engineer. 5'3?, 145 pounds 34D bust. Womanly/Curvy/Figure-8 body. Very humorous, intelligent and creative.
I'm a domineering woman by day, but in the bedroom? I have virtually no experience being someone's sub.
I want a very confident and strong dominant. I want you to make me yours. I am looking for a long-term relationship with a real life Dom who lives close by. I want my introduction to BDSM to be a deliciously slow process - so if you aren't close, you are likely to rush me during infrequent visits.
I do not like pain. I am into the BD part of BDSM, not the SM part. Later on, I might want to explore sensual pain, but if you are a sadist, then I am not for you.
The strongest dominant in a room is not the one that can only dominate the weakest. If you need me to be weak and submissive 24/7, in public, or around your vanilla friends, then you are not strong enough or confident enough to dominate me.
Since I'm new to this, the first question I face is "what am I looking for" I'm not completely sure, but I know where I want to start. Bondage and domination at a level that both you and I agree is good for me. Not too tame and not too scary.
I communicate clearly, honestly, calmly and logically. I will respond best to someone who can and will do the same with me. If your primary form of getting upset is to blow up and go into a tirade, then pass me by
Please review my Fetish Checklist because it gives my first best guess about how I feel about many of the elements of BDSM. If we continue to talk then I will want to review a much more detailed checklist with you. I am interested in many things, but I would like to be comfortable in a long-term relationship before I try some things.
No play until we formally agree.
If you are married and you don't want your wife to know - then pass me by.
sepho
People ask me where I got the name sepho. It is a derivative of the name of an ancient Poetress Sappho.
A translation of Saphho's poetry:
There is a moment when I look at you,
and no speech is left in me.
My tongue breaks,
then fire races under my skin,
and I tremble,
and grow pale.
For I am dying of such love,
or so it seems to me.
- Saphho
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