My Ideal Person:
I am seeking a Kind, benevolent DOM who is STRONG in character, intelligence, emotionally, and PHYSICALLY... I want to captivate him and surrender TOTALLY and COMPLETELY be SUBMISSIVE to "Him"... I do prefer a One on One Dom as well... I want my DOM to take Control of me, treat me kindly but harshly, gently but with an forceful hand and iron mouth, and let me surrender myself to serve him, giving him MUCH pleasure, as if he does THIS, then he only stands to reap the rewards triplefold, and then some... seeking a bedroom DOM, but possibly also a 24/7... it's all about TRUST, RESPECT, INTIMACY, COMMITTMENT... pain and pleasure hand in hand as well...( Just FYI, I am divorced 13 yrs now, and we share a WONDERFUL 22 yr. old son who graduated from college last Spring and is Very Successful, he is "MY WORLD" Truly. I am also out of my last 3 yr. relationship as of Oct. 08'so am VERY single. I am seeking a LTR, possibly "more" with the right one someday... I am truly desiring a total DOM/SUB relationship... friend, lover, confidant, partner, Soulmate... so I guess that makes me a "hopeless Romantic"... "to thine own Self Be TRUE"... I am NOT looking for a casual fling or a "Friends with Benefits" type of liasion. I am also NOT looking to "add" to an existing couple's fun either. Although "interesting" NOT for me. NOR am I looking to be a "plaything" for a MARRIED or "attached" male, I am NOT looking for someone else's man, but one of my OWN. TAKE NOTE people, I am NOT a Domme, but I "get that" alot on here for some odd reason, lol. Do I have "the Look"? LOL Hm. I also DO NOT prefer men who are "Switches:, but prefer a man who is 110% Dom. (Sorry folks, just my preference...) Also, am NOT looking for a Dom to "train me" for other Doms...And PLEASE "note" my age range preferences here guys... thanks. Oh, and one more thing, I WILL NOT respond to people who are rude, demanding, and impolite), just because I am "submissive" gives NO ONE the right to act like they already "own" me!)I am VERY "in control" in my daily life, and ESP my work arena (HAVE TO BE there, work in medical field...), so am NOT looking for a Dom to change who I am or what I am about, in other words, I am a Very strong willed Woman, despite me being "submissive" (mostly in the bedroom, however...)I am NOT looking to change "me" but looking to explore the submissive side of my personality here. I have NOT been in the actual lifestyle itself long, but have "ALWAYS" Known I am VERY SUBmissive with men. Just one of the "many" facets of me. I also have ALOT of "interests" outside of the bedroom and the lifestyle myself. I consider myself to be DEEP, emotional, VERY intelligent and intellectual, VERY sexual and sensual. A man that can have a long, intellectually stimulating conversation goes a long way with me... I seek BOTH an attractive and "cerebral" partner here. I have many passions in Life. I am a WOMAN, a "real" Redhead, and a True Capricorn woman to boot, and that should be "enuff said" lol... (;
Oh yeah and if you guys wanna pass me by, all I have to say is "YOUR LOSS"... I am a "gem" for the Right ONE. Good Luck and Good "Hunting" to all, lol.

P.S. I guess I should state MY Limits: NO shit/scatplay, NO vomit, ABSOLUTELY NO kids/elderly/dead corpses/animals (OF COURSE!), NO mummification/bodybags/clingwrap, NO diaperplay/trannies/CDs, NO medical devices, NO foreign objects shoved up inside of me (unless it is a cock, fingers, toys, or veggies, lol or something "I" approve of...), NO needles, NO pillows "near" my face when in a scene, NO water torture or submersion, NO "extreme" humiliation (ex: I will NOT be eating out of a dogbowl for you...); I do, however, enjoy some humiliation, esp. verbal- love to be called nasty, slutty filthy names (or maybe even write them on me), love to talk dirty/be talked dirty to, the DIRTIER and NASTIER, the BETTER... I AM interested in trying "knifeplay" and a few other things, as I do love "Edgeplay"... afterall guys, I have fantasies, c'mon... I have MANY other interests but thought I'd just list a 'few' here and state my limits.