Ok, so Im not so innocent *grins* Im a large sized attractive(so Ive been told)woman and Im throwing that out there first because so many men seem to have problems allowing themselves to be attracted to a larger woman.
My interest at the moment in BDSM seem to be impact play, flogging, spanking, roughness, what may seem to appear to be non consensual or edge play for some. Im involved with several groups in the midwest- so if you attend functions near me then there is a good chance that we have met.
You will find as you get to know me that Im very honest and open and hide nothing- because I feel in a BDSM exchange that those are important traits as they are in any long lasting relationship.
What am I? A slave, submissive, painslut, masochist? ppffttt well, when the day comes that a room full of people can agree on what a definition of a slave is then you may see me label myself but until then you get the long way hehehehe -Im a dominant person who bottoms in the lifestyle, but has the pleasure of submitting to select few dominant men and at times feels like she has slave-like thoughts.
Im not looking for a house full of people to live with but I do tend to be open and polly and open relationship minded. I am such a voyeur. I try and live life to the fullest that I can. Who enjoys socials/meetings within the lifestyle, and loves honest communication. Heck I don't know at this time what all else I'm willing to disclose to all the people I don't know who will be reading this so, if your a dominant male that finds attraction in a persons soul, personality, and level of possible exchange rather than the size of my body, that lives within a 7 hour drive, that has a job, work ethics,is mentally stable and understands how to incorporate bdsm into real life living ,,,,
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My Ideal Person:
Im not interested in casual or cyber sex but rather a REAL , HONEST , realationship that would/will last a life time taking of course one day at a time to build trust and unsurpast knowledge of each others soul. Im not interested in a great long distance relationship. I need a person that can out think me, push me to my limits and when appropriate with the exchange level to then push me past my limits. I believe i am not a masochist but I am in search for a Sadist because in the past it was a Sadist that pushed me to the the level that I had submitted the most and was the most proud of. Its important to me that i find a person who truely understands me enough and is dominant enough, is skilled enough, is half nuts enough to control me. lol Lately im not feeling very optimistic and fear that person may not even exist so im not really trying hard to find them. A connection , the ability to exchange ourselves on all levels is most important. Without friendship or love there can not be total power exchange that will last that lifetime in my opinion. So, i guess im here because im looking for people who find BDSM to be a lifestyle, something they ARE not something they DO..................................................................................................................................................................................
Seperately,
I would love to meet people men or women to talk and possibly be great friends. find "others" in my area who would possibly would like to meet in a social setting with me or some friends for a movie, dinner, conversation, or something non intrusive. Being completely non sexual is a preference for this type of activity - i know i cant be alone out here. Its just nice haveing friends who are also lifestyle friendly isnt it? lol Please dont contact me if your looking for a quick fuck,,, its ok if thats your thing,,, its just not mine. Thank you for your time in reading my profile.
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