My Ideal Person:
A good DOM is only as good as the knowledge He has acquired about His slave. All relationships depend upon the ability to COMMUNICATE and being HONEST especially when seeking the perfect mixture of pain and pleasure.
Only the true dominate can cherish the gives of a true submissive.

TRUST IS BUILT ON HONESTY!!

Above all, any relationship must be "FUN" for both parties. Life is too short not to have a good time.

some guys just know what to say to make you melt and sometimes they have no idea how much influence their words/actions have on us. for the most part that they mean the things they say in the moment, but beyond that....it's a mystery. I'd rather be cussed out than have someone be nice and lie! communication is key!