I seek a play partner that can become a friend with the potential to eventually in the distant future move into a long-term relationship.
I have been in the scene for many years and am a switch - I highly enjoy each experience separately and thoroughly. To clarify - I crave and need to sub, while I thoroughly enjoy topping - see the difference. I check my inhibitions at the door as I lose myself in the play.
A bit about me:
Submission: I greatly enjoy and crave the release of responsibility and control. I desire to have someone I trust take the reins and play with me: sculpting me to fit their desires and needs. I enjoy power exchange, bondage, spanking, flogging, caning, violet wand and other electro play, sensation play, leather, rubber, blindfolds, nipple play/torture, hot wax, forced orgasm, scenes, and many many other activities.
Topping: I delight in having a subbie at my feet - fully trusting and giving over control for several hours at a time. I am a gentle but demanding mistress with firm boundaries who loves to be in the driver's seat as a sub enters subspace. I enjoy power exchange, anal play with strap-ons and fisting, electro play, forced orgasm and orgasm denial, body and foot worship, piss play, mummification with breath control, hot wax, forced oral, and the list goes on...
By subbing I become a more empathetic and skilled Top and by Topping I become deeper and more appreciative in my subbing. I am intelligent, playful, creative, a little bratty and excited about playing.
Me outside the playroom:
I was born and raised in Oregon and still carry with me the causal attitude, kindness, microbrew loving, earth friendliness that Oregon represents. My foreignness to this region (Boston) can be see in my willingness to allow others to merge when driving and my proper use of a rotary. I believe in random acts of kindness, ignoring adversity, and letting good thoughts be my sword and shield.
I have been a college student for the last 12 years. I am currently taking a break, as I was disillusioned with the school I was attending. I am in the process of researching other Clinical Psychology doctoral programs that would emphasize Positive Psychology. To help explain me I will describe positive psychology, as it is a new way of looking at and explaining the world that I utilize in my daily life. Positive psychology examines positive subjective experiences, capacity for courage, aesthetic sensibility, creativity, perseverance, altruism, tolerance, and wisdom at the individual and group levels which all hit home for me, as these are the qualities of life and individuals that I seek to surround myself with.
I am an artist. I express myself through abstract painting of emotional content with acrylics on canvas, and I sew (and sell on-line) wearable art in the form of patchwork skirts and dresses (hippie threads). I am a student of life and I never let my education get in the way of my learning.
I totally embrace live music and mourn the Greatful Dead and the passing of Jerry Garcia. With joy I attend Phil Lesh and Ratdog shows, as well as Allman Brothers, Roger Waters, Australian Pink Floyd, The Dead, Phish, and many many others. Would love to find someone who deeply digs these sounds as well.
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My Ideal Person:
I am seeking someone whom I could enjoy spending time with beyond the playroom. I seek someone who would enjoy camping, theater, live sports, concerts, books, and deep intellectual conversation. Someone who is kind, loving, creative, playful, humorous and thoughtful.
The most important feature I am seeking is a true friend in life. A best friend who appreciates my kinky side. Someone who digs me and gets me and who I can find joy in being around - in the playroom and out. A person who is comfortable with themselves and would consider themselves to be an intellectual, independent, self-sufficient adult, in touch with their inner child.
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