I have been called beautiful, sexy...but I have a hard time believing it most days.
I have been dubbed a "force of nature"...and with good reason...but could be willing to turn that control over to the right person in a situation where I feel safe, and can find trust...
Speaking of trust...I don't believe in head games or lies. If you find this a part of who you are...any part...I am not interested. Having just signed and filed divorce papers, I am coming out of a somewhat boring, vanilla relationshipÂ
I am not looking for another one.
I am not interested in jumping into a committed relationship, but am open to the development of one with the right person. I am not interested in one night stands. I am very interested in a friendship that could lead to long-lasting play partners with true emotional and physical bondsÂ
someone who is intelligent and understanding, not emotionally stunted, but is more aware of who they are, and not shut down emotionally. I need open and honest communication. It is a very important part of who I am, and needs to be a part of who you are.
I love sensuality, sexuality, and am definitely looking for someone with a high sex drive. I also like to explore many different avenues of play...but have not had enough exploration to find what my true interests or levels are yet...they are still developing and unfolding, and regardless of time spent in the lifestyle, I feel that I am still somewhat of a blank canvas, looking for the right artist to bring color into my life.
Being the headstrong and assertive (sometimes aggressive) person that I am, I need someone in my life who is strong. I am not looking for a submissive, but rather someone who is dominant, and yet patient, enough to tame me without breaking me...Submission is earned. I am open and honest and respectful, and will reciprocate those qualities to the person who shows them to me. I am not bratty...I am playful, butÂI am no manÂs slave.
I am spiritual, not religious. Basically monogamous by nature, I have taken the time to examine how I feel about the thought of being involved in a poly relationship/household, but just can't reconcile myself to it being a part of who I am, and I am NOT into swinging. Compatibility and respect far outweigh age and many other factors to me. Chemistry is a major factor. If it is present between us, you will find true willingness and eagerness to explore possibilities of future enjoyment. If it's not there, I am still willing to pursue friendship, as I love people as a whole!
I am a very busy person, so please give me time to respond, due to an extremely hectic work schedule.
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My Ideal Person:
My ideal person would be that Dominant who really takes the time and effort to know and understand the intricacies of me...Try reading my blog posts and discover some of the inner workings of my mind.
Intelligence is a must. Humor is important, as well as a playful nature and an openness to the exploration of life in all of its varied forms. Adaptability is a major bonus with me, as I love people and travel many circles in life. Versatile is a word that describes me as a whole. I look for one who can accept that. Respect for others and an understanding of human nature, in all its aspects is also a bonus.
I am an upbeat person with a love for life, and while I don't expect everyone to have as positive an outlook as I do (I have my jaded moments as well), I also do not want to be innundated with negativity at every turn. So I look to find someone who is at least open to the possibility of seeking the good, rather than wallowing in the bad.
Be willing to spend the time exploring who I am. I am not talking of a need for lengthy cyber discourse, but regardless of my own high sex drive, I am looking for something much more...much deeper than just a sexual interlude. To me, it will only heighten what we share together on that side of things.
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