I'm Gryphon, a 39 year old straight submissive, recently widowed and I am looking for a sadistic Daddy.
I'm looking for playmates, with the potential for more. I insist that my playmates be my friends, that they meet the other people in my life, and I'd like to meet theirs. Not a "no-strings" kinda girl.
I'm a tall, chubby, long-legged, tattooed, pierced girl, and I wear glasses. I'm a masochist, and I'm looking for fun, excitement, happiness, joy.
I have an insane sense of humor, I'm a girl to the core, I have never and will never "grow up" in a lot of ways. I'm a faithless Heathen, and have absolutely no desire to change that or get into a theological argument. I think men that send out pictures of their dicks are seriously lacking in originality, and the guys that send out pictures of them fucking/beating other people should have to send out the model releases the other people signed. Sending photos of other people without their permission is NOT okay.
I firmly believe the denial of sex and orgasms is deserving of capital punishment. Sex is wonderful and orgasms are good for you... why deny either? (In other words, if orgasm or sex denial is part of your M.O., keep walking). Proper spelling, punctuation and grammar make me happy. There are lots of wonderful words out there that the "normal" world says are bad (slut, whore, bitch). I love those words, when they're used by a trusted playmate. Having those words used by someone I don't know will piss me off, every time.
I'm opinionated, extremely service-oriented, I try to be obedient, I'm not a perfect submissive nor do I claim to be a "true" submissive at all, I'm unwilling to participate (in any way) in any kind of punishment dynamic.
I'm funny, silly, affectionate, giving, caring, and pack very little baggage (approximately the size of a carry-on). The only way I'm calling anyone "Master" is if I can affect a hunchback, a limp, and a lisp. Sex and BDSM are indelibly linked in my mind. I can have kink without sex, and do at parties, but if I'm playing privately, I want to be fucked.
I'll wear a collar if I get to hump legs, bark at strangers, and pee on the rug. I don't believe in any ONE TWUE WAY, and I think John Norman is the worst writer on the planet, next to the cunt that wrote Twilight. I'm sarcastic, often caustic and cutting, but damn funny. I believe everyone is entitled to their opinion, provided they've read the available data and have a lick of common sense. Otherwise, they're just idiots.
I don't believe in Ancient European Houses o' Kink, or Old Guard BDSM. I think most people are full of shit, but are basically good.
I have some seriously bad traits. I spoil my family rotten. I swear like a sailor. I'm addicted to coffee and soda. I love karaoke and I'm a terrible singer. I would bring every cute stray pet I meet home, if I thought I could take care of them all. I get mad, and I yell... but then I'm done. I rarely hold a grudge, I'm nice to old people and animals, and I tip well. I can't stand stupidity though, and will not hesitate to mock.
I'm looking for a friendship that could develop into more. I am (believe it or not) very much a 24/7 kind of girl, this isn't playtime for me, it's life. I'm extremely attracted to men close to or taller than my 5'9", big men (think Edward Herrmann, Andre Braugher, and John Goodman), intelligent men, funny men, and men that can keep up with me sexually.
I might be willing to try polyamory again, but only IF I am the primary partner, and the primary relationship has been established a while. (That baggage I mentioned? yeah... I don't handle lying or feeling unimportant well AT ALL.)
I have been, and continue to be, active in BDSM communities since 2000, and have experimented with a wide range of activities. I have only a few hard limits (no scat, kids, punishment, lying or animals) and I won't bend them for anyone. Other than those... I'm willing to try just about anything 
I love knife play, thuddy impact play, bondage, hair-pulling, body punching, needles, and I want to push myself. There are TONS of things I want to do that I haven't had the time or a partner to attempt yet.
I HATE hand spanking, paddling, most toys that sting, orgasm control, chastity, or any kind of "punishment" role play or dynamic. I enjoy my "girl" status, and while I can be a lady when needed, I'm much more comfortable as a girl.
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My Ideal Person:
I don't have an "ideal" person.
So... (honest to a fault, I can't help it)...
I'd like to find someone who is great at the sex/kink stuff, fun to hang out with, and isn't an asshole (but I absolutely LOVE bastards. It's a failing) I vastly prefer sadistic men.
While I would prefer that someone to be local, I'm not so naive as to assume that the world will work out the way I want it to. I do have a very "girl" mind (for all that I have a very "woman" body), my attention wanders. I am a very physical person. I need physical contact (as much of it as I can possibly get), and no matter how much I care about a person, if I don't feel I'm receiving a certain degree of affection, my emotional and mental attention will fade. So, if you don't live within 50 miles of Salt Lake City, Utah... it's going to be difficult.
Ideally, a man interested in occasional play, a great friendship, with the potential for more. Someone close to or taller than my 5'9", a big guy... skin, hair, and eye color don't matter at all. Attitude is EVERYTHING!
For the record, if you're married/attached and in an open relationship, that's cool. If you're married/ attached and cheating, I am SO not okay with that. I'm completely honest and expect everyone I play with to be the same way. I want to be able to trust implicitly, and without honesty, I won't be able to do it.
To sum up...
If you...
Are a homophobe, a racist, a right wing Christian nutjob, or believe that Bush did a great job...
Are planning on sending me a picture of your dick, or a photo of someone OTHER than yourself (that includes photos of you with other people)...
Believe in denying sex or orgasms (blasphemer!!)...
Are going to put "slut", "slave", "whore", or some nonsense about "true-ness" in your first email...
Don't bother. We won't get along.
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