Blonde, blue-eyed, busy professional woman, who enjoys what I have, but is looking for more. I am thoughtful, humane, driven, ambitious, cultured and curious. I am not constantly dominating or infallible, and I am sometimes temperamental. I have aspirations and interests outside the "lifestyle" (a term that always makes me flinch). I seek a life informed, not consumed, by d/s.
I am a dominant woman and do not need pain to be such. I do not need anyone to tell me how to control, guide and care for the one that I will one day call my own. If that mental connection is there, it springs from inspiration, not fear.
I seek power in my submissive partner. Strength. I want him to stand on his own two feet, then choose to lay down for me. I want complexity, I want a challenge, I want a man that can speak for himself. My imagination is good, but I get so bored with puppets.
I'm less interested in the trappings of bdsm than the intense intimacy that can result from surrender to another. And though some element of formality in a relationship can reinforce the d/s dynamic, I'm more drawn to the general idea of submission and devotion than to particular acts and protocols.
If you want to get my attention, it will take a little more than a one sentence email. Tell me what makes you a good fit for me. Fresh ideas and intellectual abilities are encouraged. If this is not essential for you, please look elsewhere.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for a similarly inclined man who is tall, in good shape, reasonably near my age and takes care of himself. He should be intelligent,with a good sense of humor, and have an understanding of the dynamics of a power exchange. I prefer men who have "alpha" personalities and are strong and confident when in the public eye.
Ultimately, I am looking for someone who intrigues me, someone intrigued by me, someone who will haunt my thoughts whether we're together or apart, someone to touch in unexplainable ways, someone to touch me in ways I can't anticipate, both of us finding connections with desires and needs.
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