Please don't waste your time or mine by emailing me without reading my entire profile. I'm practically an open book and will usually answer any question, so I try to provide an elaborate profile.
I consider myself an open-minded, candid, genuine, trustworthy, and honorable person. I don't have regrets because in regards to mistakes I may make, I believe everything we do in life is a learning experience and also because I won't do anything to compromise my honor or integrity. I'm a Libra; we're habitual thinkers and plagued with indecisiveness. I'm also a straight-forward, no-nonsense, no-drama person. Don't ask a question you don't want an answer to because I don't lie and I'm seldom ambiguous. If ever I seem evasive, that's your signal to not ask questions because there's probably an answer there you don't want to hear.
Now since I don't like to waste time, let me answer some of the most common questions we're probably all tired of answering:
Question 1: How long have I been on alt? A mere 2 or 3 months
Question 2: Why am I on alt? I imagine for the same reason(s) as you, to meet like-minded people with whom I share many of the same interests, hobbies, talents, and/or level of inquisitiveness.
Question 3: Have I met anyone on alt? I have emailed back and forth with several members, chatted by way of IM with a few members, and met 2 members (you know who you are) in person. So far my experiences have been favorable and positive (knock on wood.) I believe I screen fairly well and I always trust my intuition.
Question 4: What am I looking for? This might be the most difficult question for the majority of us; not because we ourselves don't know what it is we are looking for (though expressing in words what we are looking for might be a daunting task), I believe it more so revolves around the fear that our readers may not be receptive to our responses. As much as we claim we don't care what others think, the opinion of the majority plays a big factor in our behaviors and the way in which we express ourselves. So, to answer the question, I'm looking to improve my social life by meeting new friends with whom I share common interests (in and especially out of the bedroom) and who are open and honest about themselves and also their sexuality; people with whom I can share and experience all things sensual and sexual in nature and well as non-sexual activities we may both enjoy. For those of you that are less literate than the rest, that does not mean I want to fuck you and everybody else. It simply means that my loquacious disposition often leads to detailed and sometimes graphic conversations about sex; conversations that many people find inappropriate; alt is a great place to express ourselves sexually and sensually without criticism or disrespect from other less-liberal persons. I am NOT looking for one-night-stands. I can easily find one of those at my local pub with much less effort & in much less time than here on alt.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm new to the alt lifestyle. I actually had to look up probably half of the terms on the "fetish checklist" before answering. So I would definitely need someone trustworthy and honorable who can introduce me to the lifestyle gradually and delicately. I am often very guarded so to break through that guard my partner must be genuine and possess a gentle yet deliberate demeanor. He must also have integrity, confidence, intelligence, character, ethics, be independent and stable - mentally, emotionally, and financially, and (why this is an arduous chore for some is beyond me but it must be said) he absolutely must maintain immaculate personal hygiene (this includes but is not limited to showering daily, maintaining a clean home, regularly doing his own laundry, and keeping body hair tame, preferably none at all). This is as much an indication of independence as it is an appreciation of cleanliness and structure.
What I'm not looking for: Women. Sorry ladies (and guys too), this girl is straight straight straight! Anyone old enough to be my father (or worse, my grandfather!) People who don't take care of themselves, i.e., anyone who is obese, a chronic smoker, doesn't exercise, rarely bathes, is unorganized and/or lazy, or is addicted to drugs or alcohol (I consider experimental use of recreational drugs acceptable and I'm also 420 friendly.) Absolutely not interested in one-night-stands. I have found from experience that the longer I know someone the more rewarding our relationship becomes. (Again, those of you with the intelligence to read between the lines can truly appreciate the various contexts in which this section can be taken and hopefully will agree with my analogy.) My time is quite limited. People always ask me if I'm married, have a boyfriend, etc. I honestly don't have the time to invest in maintaining a committed relationship right now, let alone the time to invest in developing a new relationship. I like being able to screen for certain qualities/characteristics and then meeting those people from all walks of life and getting to know them in a very casual way and at my own pace and/or convenience. Bars and clubs don't offer any of these options and the noise/lighting/alcohol make it impossible to learn anything about anyone you might be interested in.
So, if you happen to fall within my "love dog settings" and wish to message me, don't forget to leave me some KUDOS first!
  
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