So I guess I should issue a disclaimer about myself; I am not a doormat who is going to roll over just because you call yourself a Dom. I can say that I am the Queen of England, but I am pretty sure they won't let me try on the Crown Jewels. I have a reasonable IQ, will challenge you and call you out on bullshit. I can pretty much guarantee to be your equal in a lot of areas and capable of holding my own in others.
While I am an intelligent, funny, put together woman, I am also a sub. I admit I am feisty, opinionated, and challenging. I know those are not qualities men look for in a quick lay, but once you take the time to get to know me I can be the most pleasing little kitty sub you will ever meet.
I am seeking a local male Dom for a long term play partner. I will not relocate or travel extensively for play, I have responsibilities that do not allow it. So if you live more then a 30-40 min drive, I am sorry I can't accommodate that. I am looking for a Dom that understands while I want to please him and tend to his needs, I won't always be able to just drop everything on a moments notice, nor do I expect him to always be able to do so for me.
I am only looking for one Dom, not a casual hook up or one night stand, to build an open relationship based on trust with. I want to grow in my submissiveness and training with a Dom that cherishes and adores me while disciplining and using me. I am not looking for love, but I have to have that bond of a Dom/sub to be able to let myself go all the way.
My big fetish would be kitty or pet play. So hopefully there is a Dom out there with a sweet spot for a cute, devoted and slightly naughty cat. I do not need to be a kitty 100% of the time, for me it is more of a 60/40 split and a nice kind of foreplay and aftercare. I love to be called pet, and refer to my Dom as my Owner. Don't think you have to change your normal training to accommodate kitty play, unless you want to of course, as it really does flow into all kinds of play easily. I have had people who have never done pet play pick it up easily and love it.
While I love kitty play, some of my other favorite things are:
*Collars, restraints and gags that lock
*Posturing
*Rope bondage
*Being told to hold positions while you try to get me to move
*Being disciplined on a whim for small infractions
*Being required to wear a plug or breast bondage under clothing while going out to dinner or errands
*Being required to remain on hands and knees for an evening
*Eye contact restriction
*Being given permission to talk
*Forced or denied orgasms
*Caging
....just to name a few as there are too many to list.
If you are seriously interested in a mature growth relationship then send me a message, if you just want easy random kinky sex then don't bother.
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My Ideal Person:
While I don't expect everyone to fall into a preset mold, there are a few things I am looking for. I like a Dom who is secure and put together with no need for drama and the only 'head games' he plays are to enhance play. Someone who is intelligent and can perk my interest with whit and charm as opposed to graphic pictures of his endowment. (Don't get me wrong I like cock, but have a regular picture and something to say as well.)
I am not hung up on age, looks, money, social status or any of the other usual things. They all play into a total package mixed more importantly with humor, intelligence, skill and chemistry. However, if there isn't chemistry, then there really isn't anything you can do about it.
While I say I don't care about age, I do find that guys in their young 20's don't really know what they want yet. Young guys are usually looking for kinky hook ups and that isn't me. On the other end I have a hard time relating to men older then my father. This however doesn't mean I won't consider it for the right Dom.
In summary, I look at a total package over the drop dead gorgeous, super model bad boy with a Harley. (Yes it is a stereo-type and you get what I am saying. Guys with motorcycles are still welcome)
I think of myself as a total package as well, I am not a doormat. You will get a very smart, clever and humorous kitten with me, so please be real and know what you are looking for. Also, you get bonus points if you know the answer to the ultimate question of life the universe and everything...
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