I'm in an open marriage where she knows, I tend to be blunt and to the point and I can be rather sadistic but dont expect all to be that way so play at their level..now read on.
There seem to be a lot that like to look me over, i dont go actively seeking, I have ran into many that are wannabes but dont have the character to meet, if you want to meet send a mail and i will respond, with that stated......
Starting out in the lifestyle as a submissive, I understand the emotional and physical aspects of what it is I do as a Dominant. I have expectations, yet am always open to negotiation. In a submissive, I seek one who, more than anything is willing to open her mind, body, and soul to me and be willing to learn to trust and give respectively. The perfect match doesn't happen overnight, but over time. I would hope that, as a submissive, one would give the time to seek what is inside of her with me and allow herself to full accept her position at my side.
I am in an open marriage. She is my lover, wife, friend, and mother of my two children. She is very secure in our marriage and accepts my desire to train and have another submissive. Hopefully, in my perfect world, my submissive and wife would become friends and capable of serving me together, but that is not a requirement.
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My Ideal Person:
One could say I'm over sadistic dom, but will always play at the level of the submissive. Not to say that I wouldn't push limits. After all, that is my job, to take my submissive to a place higher than she has ever gone when she is ready and capable. I have a wide range of activities I enjoy. Too many to list here, but anything that would make my submissive whimper, squirm, moan, scream, all the way to mind blowing orgasms at the touch of a gentle and tender lover. Just imagine feeling your bottom becoming red from the attention of my hand then being held while I bring out that fire that had been building inside you?
I will always be completely honest, and expect the same in return. For a D/s relationship to really work, both must trust and respect each other. I will give my trust and respect first, and work at receiving it from you. I do NOT play gamesÂ
well, mind games that is. I'm not looking for one time play partners. I seek a genuine one who wants to learn about her submissive nature, explore it, experience it, and grow with it as my submissive.
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