Divorced, female submissive, 5'6", salt and pepper hair, hazel eyes, BBW. I am back in Texas, and working in Abilene, TX. I will not leave Texas again! LOL Iowa was brrrrrr cold!
I'm looking for a friendship, where I feel safe and protected, that could lead to a long term relationship. I've belonged to groups, played at dungeons, experienced many forms of play and types of toys, but feel that real trust and respect will only come in a committed relationship. Sure, it's fun to watch other couples, and learn from those that know a particular technique well, but, without complete trust and respect, honesty is less than perfect, and the depth of submission is less as well.
I'a strong service slave, with a bend towards the sensual. Pain is best when it comes in a gradual crescendo and bends to the stingy side rather than the thud. For now though, I would much prefer to get to know someone first, and let BDSM play grow in and with the relationship.
I've always been independent, provided for myself financially, and supported my children as needed. I just desire someone to share life with. You too should have your profession. I do have chronic back pain, but it limits me little in lifestyle ways. (Arms cannot stay above my head and no heavy lifting.)
I do enjoy having friends in the home, or meeting others outside. My social side does desire friends to share with and talk to. I would hope that you would as well, but still enjoy our home as well as alone time.
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My Ideal Person:
I am looking for a Master. More importantly, i am looking for a long term committed relationship, where BDSM can be incorporated into everyday life. I look for someone who is wise, a leader, can be soft and gentle, yet firm and that i'm not ashamed to introduce to the family. I would like to meet/date someone who will take his time creating the necessary trust and respect along with a protective environment, while playing on a BDSM level. I am not interested in JUST kinky sex, or a one night stand. If He is not sincere in his desires to commit, i do not want to hear from him. That means, do NOT respond to this ad, if you are married or just want a playmate or cannot protect me and make me feel safe.
I also enjoy men who are in touch with both their masculine and feminine sides. I'm very monogomous, and while i do have a bi side, I most enjoy the pleasure of a male in my life, but am not opposed to a cross dresser as they tend to fulfill my bi side.
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