I'm a fat queer mostly-femme bottom sex-positive feminist. If anything in that sentence makes you particularly uncomfortable, probably we aren't suited for one another. If you don't what all of them mean, I'll happily explain what they are and how they play into my particular interests.
I like men and women and spaces on the spectrum between the two. I am not a straight chick who gets drunk and kisses other women - I am queer: I love and fuck women. It's not a passing phase - If you are a man, you need to be able to deal with that. If you are a woman, you should know I also occasionally suck cock. I share your hesitance towards people who identify as bisexuals, but I am not a dabbler.
Michigan people - I'm in town for the night, would love to play
Tennessee people -I've recently moved back to town and am looking to find a new person to play with.
I've been interested in most aspects of BDSM for pretty much all of my adult life, and despite some of it being in storage, I have a reasonable amount of gear myself [Not a sling (longing sigh) or anything major, but my own restraints, floggers, clamps, a basic set for bondage].
I love being flogged, having my tits hurt, being fucked, being bruised, and I love feeling sore the next couple of days.
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My Ideal Person:
For a one-night deal: Top, pushy and shove-y, into safe sex, likes consensual nonconsent.
Longer term play partners:
You are only possessive in bed/during scenes (I'm non-monogamous).
You love the idea of a fat female at your mercy.
You can be new to this - I love coaxing nice shy people into doing horrible things to me. ;>
Bonus: You are interested in fisting/have small hands - I'm still working up to this, but I want to get fisted.
I also haven't done play piercing in way too long, so if you're up to that, I have needles and the like.
I only do initial meetups in public places. I take RACK seriously, and try to minimize risk.
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