My Ideal Person:
I want to be stimulated! I want someone who revels in tormenting, teasing, titillating, torturing my most private and forbidden places (physically and philosophically.) Inspire me, take me, use me, surprise me (I dare you!)
However, unless you can participate in some intelligent discussions and have a good sense of humor we'd tire of each other immediately.... I'd prefer interaction with someone who knows there's nothing prurient or morbid about an interest in epistemology, eschatology or ontology (although these words could all be slightly dangerous if smugly bandied about as I've just done... perhaps some smart-ass needs a spanking?)