I am Retired Pro Dominatrix my style ranges from sweet & sassy to mean & nasty, I can be stern and sadistic, to gentle and nurturing, depending on my mood.
I am active in promoting and participating in the kink community in Ottawa Valley and sites around Ontario.
The world of BDSM has drawn me for as long as I can remember. The aesthetic of the BDSM world has always attracted me and I have been living it since in my early teens.
The journey into BDSM that began for me 36 years ago continues and it thrills me more & more. I am a Fem-Domme with my own fetishes. It should not come as a surprise that a true lifestyle Fem-Domme has her own preferences.
I will only engage in a play session that I deem worthy of my time and that I personally find intriguing, interesting and fun. A session with me is real and not a performance. I insist on nothing less from my subs.
It is my intention to cultivate relationships with a core group of regular Submissives who understand and need what I'm about as a specialist and with whom I can build lasting friendships.
To me it is in the power exchange of two people understanding the ground rules and blending together with give and take from both sides.
I have come to realize that you only live once and that life itself is borrowed time.
Submissive's must be genuine in their desire to serve, please, amuse, obey and surrender control during play as well as demonstrate a willingness to learn. Potential subs must be respectful in their manner, dress and communications at all times. I especially cherish the gift of submission from those with their own personal strength.
I am very particular in my needs, and very strict with the application process. You WILL be intelligent, witty, and know how to laugh. You WILL NOT be bossy, demanding or trying to top from the bottom.
Subs should be self-sufficient and interested in sharing this journey over a longer term. You will have a means and desire to contact me.
Masochistic pain sluts are preferred but others may be considered. Must know the meaning of family values and have family sense about themselves. Must take pride in himself, know what he wants, are able to communicate his inner thoughts & feelings, and have good sense of humour.
If you’ve decided to contact me, write a proper letter of introduction. Tell me about yourself in all aspects of your life. Your hobbies, interests on both sides of the BDSM. Tell me why I should be interested in you and what qualities, talents you would bring to a D/s relationship, etc. Provide a picture if one is not available on your profile.
NOT seeking a live-in or 24/7 relationships just a dedicated submissive I will not help anyone relocate for me.
The only ones allowed to be intimate with me are my mate or my dedicated submissive.
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My Ideal Person:
I want a real masculine man who enjoys wearing men clothes and doing manly things looking to be collared and led to his knees to my throne, but not suspended, or elaborate rituals (enjoys some pain but not mutilation). The other issue I find is that the majority of subs seem to play a gender role reversal. So, I want a straight male, NOT interested in strap-ons, sodomy and cross dressing or medical play.
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