My Ideal Person:
Now that you've formed some opinions about my sincerity based on what I've written above, you should also know that I am not single. I am in a comfortable, committed relationship that just has a few open doors in it. In fact, my fiance suggested I reopen this profile. I remain interested in genuine friendship first with the potential for intimacy. I am looking for someone who may be in a similar situation - attached is fine. I prefer a man who is intelligent and articulate and interested in what I think about a variety of subjects. Good hygeiene is a non-negotiable issue, but a man need not be perfect in terms of physical attributes. Tend to like bigger guys because I'm not tiny, but really believe what's on the inside is substantially more important than the packaging! I try never to judge a person by his skin color, or any other physical traits, for that matter. And... I do have some wild sexual interests that I'd love to explore eventually with the right person... I am not so much a submissive and am not really seeking a formal Dom / sub relationship. My fiance is Dom enough for me! My interests are bondage and corporal, though I am also not an extreme masochist. I just like rough sex, force (consensual and within reason) and degradation and I will always put a man's physical needs before my own. I know what I like and need and have a pretty good idea of what my limits are... I am drawn to a man who is a little imposing, straight-forward and aggressive, but KIND... Love a guy who is ordinary, but with a deliciously deviant, perverse, even dark, twisted, kinky, adventurous secret side to his sexual personality. I (we?) MUST be able to TRUST a man before anything goes past the conversation stage! Expect my fiance to be completely aprised or even present. There's very little I will refuse under the right circumstances with the right person. I'm comfortable with casual physical relationships, but not interested in bed-hopping or one-night stands. Hope to find someone I'm compatible with, whom I can call a friend AND with whom I'll enjoy an electric, sexual relationship!!! In fact, in the 5+ years I have been on ALT, I have met lots of nice and interesting people, but only two men who had the right stuff. I intend to marry one and can't wait to fuck the other again sometime soon I hope - so I absolutely DO believe that quality men are out here! You should also know that I'm fairly comfortable with who I am sexually and have - in the past - been involved with women. Frankly, the earth never moved, so it's not something I give much thought to. Still, I might consider getting into something F / F again. As cliche as it may sound, this probably bears repeating: RIGHT PERSON, RIGHT CIRCUMSTANCES. I don't relate well to dominant females, incidentally. Seeking a completely different dynamic where women are concerned... MAY consider the right couple, as well. That's it! If you are still reading, you have my sincere gratitude. I'm long-winded (more so in text than in person!), but I felt it was important to give you all the facts so that you can make an intelligent, informed decision about reaching out. And, your persistence and attentiveness say a lot about how serious and sincere YOU are. I hope to hear from you.