Hi there! Thanks for taking a minute to read this. 
Well to start, I'm a 38 year old college grad, working in the computer industry, with an interest in BDSM.
To describe myself, I'm about 5'7" tall, and I weigh about 175lbs. I have long (almost down to my waist) light-brown hair, and grey-blue eyes. In college, I discovered alt.sex.bondage, and I finally realized why none of the relationships I'd been in before seemed to have much of a spark to them. At the time, I thought of myself as a Dom, and didn't really get into the femdom stuff I occasionally saw posted. But over the years, I grew to realize that it's not "who's on top" that turns me on, it's the exchange of power. I later added alt.sex.femdom (as well as alt.sex.stories.bondage) to my Usenet bondage-fix (since switched to soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm, then largely dropped entirely, thanks to all the SPAM garbage).
I also found a _beautiful_ young lady who took a great deal of pleasure in tying me up and beating me silly. Sadly, she moved very far away to continue her education. 
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My Ideal Person:
A LTR would be ideal, but just a casual, once-in-a-while play partner would be cool too.
I'd like to further explore the dominant sides of my personality a bit (I have some experience there, but not as much as I'd like [wink][wink]), and I'd certainly be willing to meet and play with another femdom; thus, this ad.
BTW, I think it's pretty sad that I feel the need to put this in a personal ad, but personal references are available on request...
So, if you're a female (Dom, sub or even better, a switch!) living in the Philadelphia/South Jersey area, I would very much like to hear from you... And if you're a little further away (Northern NJ, NY, DE or MD), you can feel free to drop me an e-mail too; I drive a lot for work. 
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