I am an experienced Dom interested in finding a sub for a serious relationship that includes D&s. I am generally described as laidback, loving, caring, kind, patient, understanding, thoughtful, funny and passionate by those that know me best. I had stepped away from the lifestyle for a few years but wish to begin again with someone that is open-minded and willing to experiment with her limits. I am very open-minded and willing to help you explore your dreams, fantasies and fetishes within the boundary of "safe, sane and consensual" rules. Safe words are a must for me.
I am currently a trucker that is working on a dedicated account based in North Platte, NE. I make daily trips anywhere in CO, KS, SD, MO and OK. The customer will be expanding with 40 stores that will have me delivering in ND and WY, as well. I hope to be returning to the IT field at one point, unless I decide to sit down and finally write the books I have had in mind for years.
I am intelligent (200 IQ), well-educated, politically active and love to discuss a wide variety of subjects. I am a large man at 6'1" tall and 320 pounds (now losing weight). I am a widower with a 6 year old son in need of a loving woman in his life to be a positive female influence. This means D/s is practiced outside of my son's view.
I like most music, except and country. I grew up mostly in the San Francisco Bay Area and have also lived in various parts of the USA and Europe. My favorite foods include Italian, German and Chinese. My work background is in law enforcement, business management and computers. I love dogs, windchimes, comedy (movies and live), family time and romance. Other non-sexual interests include reading, philosophy, art, museums, concerts, political activism, evolution, astronomy and anthropolgy.
I have experienced a wide range of sexual and D/s activities and have varying degrees of interest in each one. You must want a monogamous relationship and be willing to be tested for STD's before physical sexual contact. I must be alive and healthy to raise my son.
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My Ideal Person:
I am seeking a partner that might be willing to live somewhere in the Plains States. I like the pace of life in Nebraska and Wyoming, even though IO am quite a bit more liberal than people that live out here. But I am also willing to relocate between the West and Midwest if you are settled into a career path.
You should be open-minded and willing to discuss your desires. I want a woman with the view that D&s is part of a well-rounded relationship. I prefer a somewhat shy and inexperienced woman. I prefer a woman that enjoys serious conversation but also has an off-beat sense of humor.
Looks are not as important as personality. Red hair and/or freckles are BIG pluses but I prefer that you be natural, other than body art and/or jewelry. Breast size does not impress me and breast implants are a turn-off.
You MUST be drug, tobacco, alcohol and disease free.
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